There was this other guy, who started flirting with me, I cant take it. I told him i have a boyfriend, I dont flirt with him. I really really hope he doesnt like me, because he has a girlfriend, we only see each other in school which is good, my bf is not in the school. We only see each other in one class me and that other guy.
Well a week ago, my friend told him i thought he was cute, but it doesnt mean i like him, i had attractions to him last year, but now i dont, i love my boyfriend.
that other guy is on my mind, how do i let it?
I keep tellin myself, he has a gf, and hes just a flirt and that my bf is way better, but its nots working!
Please help , thanks
2007-12-28 03:54:18 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend knows about him, i told him. and he's not helping out, hes telling he doesnt care about my problems with other guys
2007-12-28 04:01:55 · update #1
In what ways is your bf better than your flirt? If you are hung up it is best for everyone if you confront the issue and step aside. At least temporarily tell your bf you need some space to think if it sounds like a breakup, it is. Don't let anyone suffer because of your inner conflict.
2007-12-28 04:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by blazerang 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Similar thing happened to me. Think about all the good things about your boyfriend. Also think how careless that other guy could be to cheat on his girlfriend. What if you become his girlfriend and then he would fall in love with someone else. Know that your boyfriend is not like that. Also, spend more time with your boyfriend and ignore that other guy. Tell him to leave you alone. you have to be a little harsh and mean. Say something like if you do not stop flirting with me now...I will tell your girlfriend that you are cheating on her.
2007-12-28 04:00:47 · answer #2 · answered by &hearts Marie &hearts 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard not to think about him and avoid him when he's in one of your classes. I think the best thing for you to do is talk to him. Tell him that you love your BF, he has a GF and that you don't think it's appropriate for him to be flirting with you. If he continues, just ignore him. You don't want your BF to find out from someone and get the wrong idea. He'll get tired after a while.
2007-12-28 03:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by ♪♫ ßr0wn Eyǝd G!rl ツ ♥ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Look, The relationship problem you are having and the answer you are expecting is bit tough as I dnt kno your position like are u in school or college or in office like that. But based on Teenager Problems I will suggest you that Developing a Relationship is very hard step and should be takn with care. You should think thrice before you take one for which you may regret throughout your life. A person coming and flirting with you does'nt stands that he likes you or you like him. Its just like an infastuation. Before deciding anything further you must know each other and spend time with each other for 1-3 years. But I think Your Bf, about whom you have spoken, you must be having some knid of relationship with him. If he meets all your criteria that you want in your partnr, then I will suggest that you should look for no one ekse and fix urself thre. and if you are not satisfied with your existing BF, then Realease him and find some one else. But you won't able to manage two at the same time. You face great problem. I am telling this out of my experience. I faced that, Very Hard.
2007-12-28 04:04:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If your bf is better and not worth losing for this so called Cutie why are you even tryna risk it ? and he has a girlfriend . .. let me tell you something . . . if ya do get together with the other guy he will never take you serious first of all if he looking at you while he has a gf what makes you think if u become his girl he not gonna do the same to you. and if he knows u have a bf he's gonna know you would cheat on him too and you could end up in a useless relationship or a jealous one. u choose.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2007-12-28 03:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Forget what other people think. Ask yourself what you really want in your life or right now and then decide. Be patient. These two guys maybe cool or whatever but theres 6 billion people in the world and where ever you go there will be someone who you are attracted to. Real talk.
2007-12-28 04:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you love your boyfriend why does it matter? Just ignore him and im sure he will stop flirting with you, he is hoping he will get a rise out of you and it looks like its working. Plus if he has a girlfriend and he is flirting with you, what kind of guy is he?
2007-12-28 03:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by ann_nuhgee 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If u love your bf that much this guy wouldn't be in your mind at all. Whe you're in love every otha guy in the world disappears. The only person you care about is your bf. SO you need to really think about ur relationship.
AND i know it's hard when someone is a big flirt but it doesn't matter if u REALLY love ur Bf. Maybe try talking to that jerk's gf to warn her about her player.
2007-12-28 03:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by SleepingBeauty =) 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
if you LOVE your b/f you will leave this situation alone! Don't do something you will regret. True love goes through tests and you need to pass this one. If this relationship doesn't work out you can leave it knowing that you did the right thing. If you get confronted by the other guy i would simply state that you are happy where you are at. Good Luck!
2007-12-28 03:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by Just me 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Don't play games with him. If you're not interested, stop calling him cute and put your foot down. If you are, stop stringing your current bf along. Only pain and heartache can come to you when you hurt others in the process, meaning your bf and his gf. NO GAMES!!
2007-12-28 03:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by TB 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋