Should I practice abstinence?

Question

And how do people "know" how to have sex?

So some people suck at sex?
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Answer 1

Practice abstinence until you feel the time is right to make love.

When you do, always use protection.

As a woman, I can tell you that my first time was with a boy who had some experience.

Doesn't matter anyway, you will learn through practice.

I so hope you find a wonderful man who will teach you how to make love through love. Nothing is 'bad' if you care for each other.

Answer 2

It has been said that the same "chakra" used for sex is also the one used for "Spirituality", hence a lot of Religions "preach abstinence".
With today's Society and the prevalence of STD's (sexually transmitted diseases), it's probably not a bad idea.
As to your second question, IF 2 virgins got married, I'm not sure how they'd figure it out unless they bought a book?
The "Kama Sutra", perhaps?

Answer 3

Let all manor of illicit sex and uncleanness of every sort or greediness not even be mentioned among you, just as it befits holy people; neither shameful conduct nor foolish talking nor obscene jesting, things which are not becoming, but rather the giving of thanks. For you know this, recognizing it for yourselves, that no fornicator or unclean person or any gambler has any inheritance in the kingdom of the Christ and of God. And believe me you are taking a great gamble when having godless sexual appetites of lust which lead to unwanted pregnancy and sexually transmitted disease. God wants you to have a happy life. He wants you to enjoy a life with all the sex you desire. God just wants you to do it right. Get a mate and get married and include God in that marriage. Don't be in a hurry to rush anything.Another thing is your reputation. Do you want a bunch of boys running around like dogs in heat trying to get a date because your sexual encounter with an immature person has somehow made headline news in your little circle of friends? Any God-fearing individual will always be wondering in the back of their mind,What does God think about this? Do not be misled. Neither fornicators,nor adulterers, will inherit God’s kingdom

Answer 4

Abstinence protects your innocence and purity, as well as your health and future. All can be given up so easily for a moment's pleasure or need to make someone else love you. Its a very high cost for something that may come to be a very cheap thrill. Don't fall for the culture's love of immediate surrender to sex. It is a gift we give to those we love deeply, and want to share ourselves with for the rest of our lives in the context of what God designed as a human union where we grow and learn together.

How to have sex? There will be many boys and men who will come into your life that would love to show you. Just remember, you are a treasure. Don't spend that treasure just anywhere. Wait for your true love...the one who loves you more than life and will protect and treasure your heart and body. All the others will just use you to fulfill their own desires, telling you they love you just to get what they want... Letting you think you have to have sex with them to be their girlfriend, or they will leave you. Don't believe it. Love wouldn't treat you like that. We all want to be loved, and because of that some would take advantage of you pretending to love you. Don't fall for it.

Watch for the one who gives to you, not those who take from you.

Answer 5

When they get married they start to practice till they master the whole thing, of course our parents gave us a bit of knowledge of what sex is about, and sometimes school too, but since school gives it a non-christian point of view to the thing the kids usually end up having sex before time which is a sin and an offense against God.

Answer 6

If you fell that is the right thing for YOU to do. I would say don't go off having sex with someone just because you wan't to get it over with. Wait until you find the one you feel comfortable with whether it is before or after you are married and trust me you will know when you have found that person. As for how do you know, you don't. Nobody is good at it or knows what they are doing the first time around which makes it even better to do it with the one you love.

Answer 7

Sex is a beautiful thing. But if you're not ready for everything that comes along with it, I'd suggest abstaining from it. You learn how to perform over time from constantly doing it. They also have adult DVDs and books you can pick up a few pointers from. If you do decide to get you some, just make sure he wraps "it" up with a condom. Safety first. When you go bungee jumping without that cord, you will go splat!

Answer 8

if only all believers would be strictly abstinent for about fifty years or so we would be rid of this particular problem once and for all.

(you get better by having more sex, certainly - but you only get better if you are having good sex. as with any other motor skill if you practise getting it wrong you actually deteriorate.

it takes years of practice to become a christian).

Answer 9

Not a whole lot to practice there, but you are right that to do sex well takes a bunch of practice. Though it should always be safe.

Answer 10

If you feel its right to practice abstinence than go for it but make sure you are educated on birth control and sexually transmitted diseases in case you suddenly change your mind.