Been with my gf for almost a year. We spent her 25th birthday in Vegas with a few friends. I walked in the hotel room and saw my gf and my best friend spooning and sleeping in bed together, her in her panties and bra and him in only his boxers. They both swear nothing happened, but we were all hammered drunk and they didnt remember getting in bed with one another. Its been 4 months since that night, and I still can't get that image out of my head. My gf and I are still together for now. Am I over thinking a stupid Vegas night? Or should I move on and clear my head?
2007-12-28 03:36:14 · 10 answers · asked by Rickls 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy is a 100% religious guy. Church every sunday and I have never heard him tell a lie. I honestly believe if something happened he would tell me.
2007-12-28 03:42:31 · update #1
Maybe sit and discuss how this is bothering you with her and him. If nothing really happened and they passed out drunk then you will be able to tell by their facial expressions.
At least discuss this with her and no arguing about it just talk so she can know what you are feeling....do not keep this bottled up. It will only cause disaster later.
This will help you no matter what you decide to do in the end.
2007-12-28 03:57:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u ever thought about forgive but u can never forget.
so don't take it to the head
i think u should talk to your gf about it and get it out in theb air once again
but try to forget what happen because
it was just a stupid night in vegas!!!!!!
2007-12-28 11:47:49 · answer #2 · answered by DANEISHA J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i was in this situation i would def. leave. Even when you are drunk you know what you're doing. I know i can get pretty hammered and still remember everything."I was drunk" is an over-used excuse.
2007-12-28 12:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mari 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would move on in clear your mind obivously this affected you more then it should and maybe its your way of getting out of your realtionship if you are not completly happy. Most likely nothing happened between the two but if you feel like you can't trust her then move on.
2007-12-28 11:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by lovelyangel3340 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend what happened before they got drunk if he is as honest as you said he will tell you. And then ask your girlfriend to confirm the story.
2007-12-28 11:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by Friendly boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what happens in vegas stays in vegas right? come on wake up dude, for sure they had sex no doubt about it, the only decent thing they did was put their underwear back on before falling asleep. so go sleep with his girlfriend then you will be even and can move on
2007-12-28 11:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it is still bothering you, I would seriously reconsider your relationship. Personally, I would leave. Getting drunk is not an excuse for anything.
2007-12-28 11:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by xprincessx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would leave, becuase if youall were drunk and its hard to tell what they did, plus if they was drunk to they prolly dont remember if something happend or not, so i wouldnt trust it i would leave
2007-12-28 11:42:47 · answer #8 · answered by BrandiLea! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, you have to let her have a lil fun if she is drunk/ was then ir doesnt mean anything? do you know if they did it? up to what base? thongs or under wear? Condom r no?
2007-12-28 11:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It all depends how serious it is with you too.
Why was she half naked?
I would presonally leave.
2007-12-28 11:39:57 · answer #10 · answered by Chuck L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋