Elaborate to win points. Incidentally, FRAN, Johnny and I are devout Atheists so please keep god(s) out of your answer.
2007-12-27 23:08:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
I believe I just recently found the REAL me, and I have not revealed it in its entirety to anyone yet. I just recently decided that I have to do what I want to do, instead of what others think I should do. I have to make my decisions on whats best for me, and not what I think others would want me to make. And I realized that I need to stop being so nice to people, and stand up for myself.
Basically, I am going to graduate in 3 years and move to New York no matter what boyfriend I may have and no matter what friends I may have. As long as I have a job that can pay the bills, I am going to move there and I am determined to work my way up to the career I wish to have.
2007-12-27 23:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by jenny 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
For a long time, I lost sense of who I really was. I was in a verbally abusive relationship for 6 years and I really have no clue who I was during that time, besides who he wanted me to be. After that I spent a couple of years trying to find myself again, and with the help of my friends I found me again. I would say my husband knows the real me, he knows all my moods, he knows that I am pretty laid back and love to laugh, but also knows how to push my buttons. There is never a time around him that I have to think before I talk or act like something I am not. And if I am drinking, everyone knows the real me, cuz I get diarrhea of the mouth and spill my guts. HA!
2007-12-28 07:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by kei 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi Suzi, you have a very large diversity of questions, I like that, keeps my mind pumping.
Does any one know the real me. They only know what information I give them, there are things they don't need to know. My G/F knows more than anyone else, but even she does have the whole situation.
Do I know the real me. Yes I know myself inside out, I have been through so much my head is like a time diary. I know my capability's, my attributes and my needs. I know who I want in my life and who I don't. Lastly I know which direction I am taking my life. Best wishes Suzi Happy new year
2007-12-28 16:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by The Honest one 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really I am, and always will be still learning,.... everyone I meet, talk to, or try to teach helps me to find a new me sometimes....by reflection it brings out a different feeling in my mind and renews something, I don't know what that is....yet, but I am relevant to it and them... a little abstract thought I know, but we all as humans are still discovering ourselves...........we wait and learn ...........
2007-12-29 06:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by John B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, have you heard of the old Japanese saying that we have multiple faces. I have the face I show the world, the face I show my friends, the face I show my family, the face I show a spouse and the face I show only to myself. All of which go to make up the whole me.
2007-12-28 09:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by James E Lewis AKA choteau 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife knows me I think better than I do, kinda sad huh. But after 19 yrs of marrige she should. We are both 37 yrs old and have been dating since we were both 15 yrs old and married since we were 18 yrs old (we are a rare statistic in teen marriges working out). She has had ample time to key in to my actions and reactions.
2007-12-28 07:14:07 · answer #6 · answered by Zodiack 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No one knows the real me but me. however, everyone who knows me knows a different part of me, and if they were to all to meet, they just might put the puzzle together. I dont ever see that happening tho. yay me!
2007-12-28 17:46:43 · answer #7 · answered by Serious Shuck 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To know oneself takes years of study.You must imagine all possible activities and know exactly how to handle yourself in.them.No one else can truly know you, as you change a little from day to day.
2007-12-28 07:18:27 · answer #8 · answered by Kim K 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Nobody truly knows the entire, real me. Not even me.
2007-12-28 10:21:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The one who know to think positve and get to do nice things in life, can be and feel happy.
To respect, to give love and to care can make person to get people to feel same to him / her.
That person will know who he / she is.
All the best and be happy!
2007-12-28 07:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by Positive P 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋