2007-12-27 20:10:18 · 10 answers · asked by TT 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Pushing action:
Call her contact her, actually she has ended it and I mentioned to my wife that I would not contact her for 6 mths until our marriage relationship is resolved (she want to stay, I want to go now).
2007-12-27 20:11:55 · update #1
She just said she is doing this for revenge
2007-12-27 20:21:21 · update #2
Kym: actually, I would rather be her, can do anything you like to do. This is my world.
2007-12-27 20:35:37 · update #3
It sounds like she has serious issues, and life is too short to reason with someone that crazy.
2007-12-27 20:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by dumpsterdd90 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because she is challenging you to come back to her, and say to her that no, you only want your wife, and that you don't want your emotional affair.
Having an emotional affair is an affair, and if your wife is even willing to keep you around, you are a lucky and much-loved man.
The idea of ending your marriage must be based on something besides your affair interest.
Ending marriage is easy. Keeping it is difficult. Starting it had excellent reasons. Hang in there. Anyone you end up with will be challenging at various times. Being able to look back at your time together is priceless. Be a man, tell her that she is the only one for you, and let it be so.
2007-12-28 04:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by purplesometimes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is trying to see how you will react and what you will do. this is a true test of what you can offer to the relationship and how much you can committ. how did this emtional affair with the other person come about? were you feeling unloved in your marriage?
2007-12-28 04:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by bellakire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your wife likes you very much and she wants you to be happy, that is why pushing to the other side. You confirmed that she wants to stay with you. make her happy. Always better to be loved.
2007-12-28 04:27:41 · answer #4 · answered by chidambaram k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
K.... shes either very hurt or VERY "i dont care-go be with her". In any event, emotional is worse than sexual, so ur not nice and it'll probably come back to get u in the future....
2007-12-28 04:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by Kym 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because she wants you to be happy and she herself is having an affair? You should discuss this with her!
2007-12-28 04:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is trying to get a reaction from you. Do what you want, and she will see how you really feel.
2007-12-28 04:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. she is trying to see if you would actually go and it is a test
2. she has lost feelings for you
2007-12-28 04:12:22 · answer #8 · answered by Jay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because she is doing the same thing that you are.
2007-12-28 04:19:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to split. It's over.
2007-12-28 04:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by julie b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋