well, now i am! i am feeling blue :(
my high school friends are all working, and i am stuck in college.. so they are so packed where else i am not.. we still chat or some times(really few times in a month), we hang out together!
so does it this life should be after high school??
they have a day off, and i understand if they wanna spend it resting and stuff, but hey! i am feeling so left out!
i gotta new friends, yes, but i can't relate to them Immediately ya know..
i had make approach, coming to their house and asking them to hang out, but well, if they are tired and packed what i gotta do??
so is this what adult life is?? btw, me and my friends are all 19 going to be 20 next year..
thanx *sigh*
2007-12-27 18:20:48 · 10 answers · asked by You think you know me? 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
pardon me for my spelling mistake, as i said i am feeling blue..
2007-12-27 18:21:35 · update #1
awww babe i know exactly what you are feeling. but you are doing the right thing by going college. college changes yuo completely - and in a good way. once you get out of it - you will have a much better life - with a good job !
so don't worry if you sometimes feel disconnected - we all lead different lives. and at the end of the day they are your friends after all
2007-12-27 18:25:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've felt similarly, yep. If I'm understanding what you're describing properly, the term for it would be "disassociation" : (*a temporary state* of perceived detachment from one's emotions and/or body) It can be part of a mental illness (such as D(issociative) I(dentity) D(isorder), more commonly known as Multiple Personality Disorder)... but it also happens to most people at some time or another, and is nothing too serious. They say it usually happens when you're extremely emotional, and you don't exactly know how to handle it, so you just separate completely. For the minor incidents, I find it to be a combination of tiredness and something upsetting, but that's personal. (I get overly emotional when I'm sleep deprived.) I'm not sure why it happened to you if you can't think of anything in particular that would have set you off... but sometimes, things don't need a reason, y'know? Possibly it's something you weren't aware of consciously, something your subconscious picked up on. (Oh, it can also be drug-induced, lol) If it was a few week-ends ago, you should know by now if it was an isolated incident, or if the dynamic between you and those friends is gone. :D I'm sorry it ruined your weekend =/
2016-05-27 10:05:19 · answer #2 · answered by kaley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww don't feel blue! Growing up is hard to do. I personally love my alone time. I have a list of things that I am thankful for and when I am sad and blue I get it out and go over it one thing at a time and each one I look at I really reflect on it. You know go back to the memory and sort of re-live it so that it is like I am there again. Then I do the next one. When I am done I add another memory to my list. I also love to go for walks, we are often is such a rush for fun that we miss the simple pleasures in life all the beauty that is out here is this great world of ours for us to see and enjoy. Walk. Look at people. Smile. You will see some people have life much better than you, others much worse. You will see caterpillars munching on a leaf, or birds bouncing on the ground looking for food singing a beautiful song just for you. In the sky you may see pictures of mystical dragons or a sweet teddy bear. Friends are very special part of life too and I am very lucky I have many, however, I do not have any in the small town where I live, well I guess I have one but I do not see him often. I write, I read, I walk, I volunteer. Life is what you make it! You are very smart! YOU will come up with something. Good Luck!
2007-12-28 04:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by teresa m 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ah, to be on the verge of twenties again. You are very likely to feel this disconnect for some time, but as you adjust to your new college routines (by about the end of first semester next year!) you will have started to forget high school. When you graduate from college you will again feel a sharp pang of disconnect and will face building your adult life. Try thinking of it as an adventure.
2007-12-28 03:24:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes,I feel disconnected,especially during the holidays!Most of my friends from our class are from the countryside and they're spending the holidays there,with their families!Out of a group that was formed of 10-15 people during the holidays we're only 3 or 4(we're 17 and 18)
2007-12-27 20:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by black_cat 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel that was too. I work a lot and have 2 children. My friends don't work as much as I do and don't have children. I can't do a lot with my friends.
2007-12-28 02:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by kim_in_craig 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
screw em...they're just jealous cuz u went to college...hang out with your new friends..as for the old ones they'll come around when you're a little older if they're still around
2007-12-27 18:24:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah..
but in my case,,me and my junior high school friends seperated in senior high school....
so i found its hard to hang out with them, plus they have new friends,,
one day me and them with their new friends hang out together...
you know what, my friends just talked with their new friends, i had no idea what were they talk about, so i kept silent....
oh goshh i wish i was disappear
2007-12-28 02:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah ...it just like me...i went to new school....and I Miss o;d frieds..
Old friends are Gold friends....
and when i'm i goint to talk to yoou...?
2007-12-28 04:16:29 · answer #9 · answered by Insane Reefa J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes but I dont really care.
2007-12-27 18:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by Shanna's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋