there is this kid in 3 or 4 of my classes (he also fallows me home every now or then but i dont care). everyone in our grade (and the grade other grade ahead of us) hates him because hes "mean" to them. i dont see this and i dont really belive them fully. now over winter brake im thinking about him and i think i might like him and stuff and som of my guy friends say he really likes me. sooo what should i do...
ok and PLEASE, dont be mean... if yea r then im gunna report it or w/e!!
2007-12-27 17:19:09 · 40 answers · asked by mmoore32995 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just so u kno i do kno y ppl dont lik him, and ppl r mean to him then he is mean to them. like the "golden rule" (treat ppl the way u wanna b treated!!)
2007-12-28 09:40:22 · update #1
On the first day back from winter break, have lunch with him
2007-12-27 17:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why would anyone be mean? If you like him go for it. I was in that position once. I liked this guy and he liked me. He'd ask me out, but I'd always come up with a polite excuse not to be able to hang out. I really regret it. I was stupid back then and cared too much what other people thought. I was kind of the "popular" girl and he was the cool, funny guy. But the guy that was the "loser" when he was younger and everyone still kind of kept that image of him. So what I'm saying is don't give in to what other people think of him. Make your own judgement. You only live once so take advantage of all the great people you can meet. Get to know him better. Call him up tommarow and ask him to go sledding. If your friends laugh at you or ask you what you are thinking just keep a straight face and ask them what's wrong with him. Tell them you don't find him mean. Best of luck! Stay true to yourself. I've learned from my mistake and I don't want you to make the same one! Happy holidays!
2007-12-27 17:25:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why r u so self conscious bout people being mean? Your never ever gonna meet us or see us so why do u really care? Anyhow, Well if you really like I would say go for it, cuz in some weird way, if he really is the kid at school thats the "weirdo", you may be the only person who can understand him which is why there might be an attraction. So I say, go with your gut feeling.
2007-12-27 17:23:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is mean to other people, it could be him just looking for some attention. If you like him, keep your guard up and take it slow with a person that you have heard bad things about. Reserve your own judgment about him and see how it turns out. If he proves to be a jerk, at least you gave it a chance.
2007-12-27 17:25:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my opinion is....so what if everybody else "hates" him. How YOU feel about him is all that matters. You can't like or dislike someone because someone else likes or dislikes them...that is a personal choice to make. Sometimes people are "mean" because people are "mean" to them and in school kids can be down right NASTY to each other, so maybe he has his reasons to be "mean". So, go with your own feelings on this and I wish you well!
2007-12-27 17:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by living and loving life 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might help to know how old you are but either way, you have to do what your heart tells you. If you want to date him then try it but keep your eyes open for the "mean" stuff that ppl have said he does to them. Don't settle for someone that treats you like junk though.
2007-12-27 17:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by Tammy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
im in middle school and i dnt really get bf's so whats ever but i think u should take a chance.good luck and if starts like stalking or something and starts calling u 24/7 then hes 2 needy
2007-12-27 17:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing to be mean about follow your heart. If you don`t see it then it might not be true. I would go for it. You will never know if you don`t take taht chance. If you are not sure ask him out on a lets see date. You go on a date and if things work out you tell him but if they don`t its like an easy way out
2007-12-27 17:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
frist off i dont see me having anything negative about this
You are probelly likeing him and thats fine, ask people why they hate hime so much and hear their reasons. Im sure hes not like some murder, its okay to like him and if you do then just tell other ppl to back off becuz hes nice to you, (if he is nice to you that is=). ) If you still are thinking about him alot then hang around him and see if he really what you think he is, and if not then you have your "own reason why" and not someone elases
2007-12-27 17:28:07 · answer #9 · answered by lady 16 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People get bad raps for some stupid reasons. However, sometimes their bad raps are for good reasons.
If you like him, I say you go for it and find out for yourself. Talk to him, hint that you're interested, or if you're bold enough, make the first move. Don't be blind to what others say but don't let it make decisions for you at the same time. You never know until you find out for yourself!
2007-12-27 17:23:32 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs. Fitz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same. I thinking about the girl I like. I know its difficult or whatever but you have to talk to that person. But don't bother them alot its creepy. When you get a chance walk by him and say hi...
2007-12-27 17:23:59 · answer #11 · answered by Guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋