I sometimes get the urge to be pregnant. Is this natural? I've been with my man for three years. We said we're gonna wait, due to circumstances...but there are times when i feel like I don't want to wait. How do I shake this feeling?
2007-12-27 17:01:04 · 25 answers · asked by ♥вєαυтι♥ 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Never ever ever. The thought of being responsible for the development of another human for at least 18 years makes me want to jump off a cliff.
And if I somehow change my mind, I will adopt. We need to stop overpopulating the planet. Especially if we live in a country that gives women reproductive options.
2007-12-27 17:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Geologist 7 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I love being pregnant and I'm old enough to be a mother; whereas many girls out there are getting pregnant and have NO business opening their legs if they can't pay the bills!
In answering this question, you should also ask, what is ethical according to societies point of view and how it affects the people as a whole? I am not in favor of govt assistance nor do I believe that babies should be having babies unless they have the money and job to do so! It's selfish for one to only think about themselves when they are still living under the roof of their parents or guardians.
2007-12-27 17:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
its your maternal clock......... this is completely normal, exspecially after being with your boyfriend for 3yrs. However if circumstances are not good, it's best you wait until you are both ready to have children. To shake the feeling try focusing on another goal..... hey maybe you guys get a puppy or a kitten i know its not the same but it gives you something to baby and will give you some experiance with responsibility and such. or maybe you should babysit, or go work at a day care for a bit....... that may change your mind lol.
2007-12-27 17:15:24 · answer #3 · answered by alicia m 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I get that feeling all the time, but my doctors have advised me against conceiving my own child due to genetic blood clotting disorders and my testing positive for lupus anticoagulant. I see all of these othere women who are pregnant and it makes me yearn for a baby of my own. My husband and I plan to adopt in the next couple of years. As to shaking the feeling, i'm not sure how. But, if you find a way I would love to know it! I just wanted to let you know you are not alone with your feelings, because ever so often the desire is there..
2007-12-27 17:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's totally natural to have that fuzzy little urge to have a baby. It's a desire to not only carry, bare and then nurture a child, but to have a little being who is a product of both you and the man you love . . . that urge may never go away. I myself if able would indeed have another baby. Really, I would imagine that the majority of women will never trully lose the urge to become pregnant.
2007-12-27 17:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just had a little girl almost three months ago and sometimes I miss the feeling of her moving around and knowing that she was growing inside me. But I have her with me now and I dont want to go through the birthing experience again! Or for a REALLY long time.
2007-12-27 17:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by Shanna's Mommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I think I'd like to FEEL what it likes to be pregnant and deliver a baby but I know I don't actually want to have children of my own. That urge is not enough for me to shake my aversions to having my own children. Some people are just not meant to have children. But yes I have, but a very fleeting feeling.
2007-12-27 17:31:18 · answer #7 · answered by Ericka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's completely normal to feel that way. It's a maternal instinct that's been with women for centuries.
Really, since it's an instinct and not a symptom or anything, the only solution is to talk about it. Talk to your man about your feelings so they are out in the open. It could be your brain is sending psychological messages to your body, telling you that you are ready to move forward in life. So... talk about it openly.
And it's nothing to worry about, it's just your biological clock.
2007-12-27 17:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to be pregnant or have a child? Two very different things. Pregnancy is the EASY part... be sure before you get into anything. I do miss being pregnant sometimes, but I wouldn't go as far as to say I want to be pregnant...
2007-12-27 17:05:05 · answer #9 · answered by ciao! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this natural. As women we have the instinct to nurture and care and whats more caring than having our own little bundle of love - aahh a baby.
Its like when you see another woman with her babe, we tend to want go up and ask if we can have a hold. Just talking about it on here now is making me quite broody.
2007-12-28 05:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by Lenio 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋