Does it make any difference to a guy that the partner he is having sex with is his love or somebody else?

Question

I just heard my dad talking my mum on the phone (he was away for about a mmonth) first he said"...that's impossible without love" and then after some minutes he said:;;; I really want to touch you and lick you....
does it mean my dad loves my mum or he is just horny and nothing more?
do guys only want sex and it doesn't matter for them if she's their love or not?

well I know, my dad thought I'm sleeping but I was awake and I couldn't help. I heard

Answer 1

The short answer is, it's possible and fun with someone you don't love. But it's MUCH better when love is involved, because then it's about making them feel good as well as feeling good yourself.

See what I mean? Any other questions, feel free to email me. none of this stuff is obvious, and I know how badly it sucks to figure this stuff out on your own.

Answer 2

Well... both. Guys are extremely sexual on a primal level (meaning "just horny") So yes, sometimes sex can be sex and thats just fine. They move past that as they get older though (most of them) and at that point, sex with the presence of love, or at least intimate connection, is preferred over meaningless, empty sex. So yeah... it's a little of both.

Answer 3

It depends on the guy. Some guys are very discriminatory, others will have sex with anyone when they are horny. They will tell you that they love you, and even that they want to marry you in order to get sex. That is why it is best to wait until you get to know a guy before you end up in the bed with him.

Your dad obviously loves your mother.

Answer 4

you should stop listening in on your parents private conversations

Answer 5

some of them don't care they take anything they can get.