My partner and I would like to get married. We are sensitive people and prefer the company of our close friends, as we find others, particularly my family, pushy and try to pigeonhole our lifestyle as we can sometimes think "outside the square". This is irritating for us as we find their remarks can be ignorant, insulting and lack respect.
Our families have been pestering us about getting married, but we would like to do this in our own time, in own way. We would like it to be a small quiet affair with the friends we trust and no big fuss made. The problem is my family would never forgive me for excluding them from a ceremony, even to the point of my mother yelling at me and my partners parents would be disappointed as well.
Arranging and attending big events gives me anxiety, having had a nervous break down 4 years ago I am careful about what I take on. It is easier just not to get married. What should we do? It sounds crazy but we are both in our mid fourties.
2007-12-27
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