am i ugly?

Question

i dont mean to sound conceited but if im not ugly then why do i always end up being the friend and never the girlfriend

Answer 1

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But you look just fine hon... You got many years ahead of you, dont worry so much about immature boys.

Answer 2

Are you ugly? In a word "No!", but your question implies deeper problems. At the very least you seem to be young, insecure, and confused about relationships and how you should be proceeding with your life.

Being envious of your friends and peers, or using them as role models for what you think you should be doing is a recipe for disaster. Getting _A_Boyfriend should NOT be one of your goals in life! Getting _The_Right_KIND_ of boyfriend SHOULD BE one of your goals. If you choose the wrong boyfriend now, you may not be available when the right one comes along, and that will only double your misery.

So, if you really want to have a happy successful relationship, first figure out what you want out of life, then find the sort of person who is most likely to want to help you achieve those goals. Doing anything else is likely to either be a waste of time and effort, or may well put you in a desparate situation you really don't want and can't get out of.

Answer 3

i have seen women that could be super models that are so dull that they fade in a crowd, I have seen average Joe's out shine any person in the same room and that makes every man turn their head....
what makes the difference?- which one decides not care and makes sure every person sees every good attribute. - that's the key....maybe that will help you decide yourself

real guys dont go for looks it really comes down to confidence- I know I'm not the hottest chick around' I'm a little chunky, I'm short, bow legged, and have weird hair- shoot I dont care- I got a nice butt, I can crack a good joke and I'm going to be honest, I bet I could get a lot of dates if i want to. I think its because guys like a girl that just is themselves and want to have fun

Answer 4

you're a very pretty girl I'd have gone out with you. you have really nice eyes.

when I go out with a girl, physical attraction is really only a part of what makes them a good girlfriend or date. conversation skills, and being a nice person are huge parts of it. you look like you have a tender heart, which is probably why you feel that way. I was always the "friend" and not the boyfriend, but eventually it turns around.

The singer Iggy Pop once said "Cry for Love, and there's still a chance you get IT"

Answer 5

No, you look fine. Don't worry about it. It will change as you get a little older. Who knows? It varies for people. It also could be how you come across to boys. But I think that if I were you, I would let it come when it's going to come.

Answer 6

No you are not. Dont you just hate that. I had that problem before. I was single and was tired of being alone. I was trying really hard but getting that.............you are such a great friend....blah...blah... It hit me that I was coming off as being desperate. Just be patient you will find what you want when you least expect it. Also I agree 100% with Iris.

Answer 7

your pretty

Answer 8

You are beautiful no matter what. If you end up the friend instead of the girlfriend. well then do not worry. because he was not for you. You will meet someone much better and nicer.

Answer 9

You're obviously incredibly young, but you seem to be the type that will grow beautifully into your looks- if you stay away from drugs and alcohol, that is (they ruin your face, I'm tellin' ya).

Answer 10

no you are a beautiful person and dont think anything lower than that. If those guys dont like you they have a problem you will find someone