Me and my fiance argue over stupid things everyday we love each other and were each other's best friend were getting married in a couple weeks and we dont wanna make a mistake.
We are happy when we are not argueing, but we want to make sure this isnt going to be a mistake.
Money is a big issue because we dont have much money at the momment and it is the root of all of our arguements.
2007-12-27 14:45:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Both of you are going to need to grow up and take a more selfless attitude towards life.
As for the money troubles, write down a budget and stick to it!
Good luck.
2007-12-27 14:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish i were in his shoes now. Im married 10 years and was stressed out all the time over money and argued and was just plain mean now she is ready to leave me and i realized no matter how much money i ever get ill never be more happy then when i see her genuinely smile and know im the reason that just happened warms my heart and takes my breath away i just wish i realized sooner wow what an awesome life i could have gave her.
please show him this answer so maybe he can realize your happiness is most important
and tell him to ask himself what your dad would say or do if he was there for some of the bickering. i sure wish i did im sitting here crushed and will never have her want to kiss me with any passion ever again.
2007-12-27 22:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by Corey W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any marriage can work. You have to let go of your ego though (as does he) and not need to win every time. Also, many people have mentioned money being the center of relationship issues, and they are right, money often brings trouble. But you said you don't have a lot of money. That's not an issue. Even rich people argue over money, so don't think if you had more money, you would argue less about it. Then of course, there is the fights over sex...that's fun too....
2007-12-27 23:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by theodore r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking the wrong question. You already know if it can work. All you have to ask yourself is if you want it to work. Money will always be an issue if you both are not honest on what you are spending money on. Ask yourself if you tell him everything about your money if you do, then you should ask him the same thing. Open communication is the key to knowing if you want to say, or leave..
2007-12-27 22:57:44 · answer #4 · answered by iamjustlikeyou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money is the #1 one cause of arguments in most relationships and one of the biggest causes for divorce, if you know money is a problem, talk about it dont argue and it will work!
2007-12-27 23:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by jscheiben 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me i would wait till you work these issue out because after marriage it only gets worse!I suggest pre- marital counceling so you can learn how to up your communication skills.Will this relationship work no one hear can tell you but if you have to ak it means you have doubt in your mind and things dont looks so good.
2007-12-27 22:53:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make a financial plan to help get rid of your money problems....then both of you should stick to it.
That will help to eliminate why you're arguing.
2007-12-27 23:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Together 17 years...married 15 years....money is a common probelm....its a day to day thing....go with it.
2007-12-27 22:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by Stacies Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it will if you work at it, keep a budget and write everything down on paper.
2007-12-27 23:40:14 · answer #9 · answered by Amarante 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can still work but only if you both really want it to. Good Luck!!!
2007-12-27 22:49:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋