I have had this friend who I've worked with for almost a year, and I'd had a thing for him for a long long time, but now we're just good friends. he goes to a school that's a ways away from mine. One day I hung out with his friends and they seemed nice, but I still felt somewhat out of their circle. My friend wants me to come and hang with them more often. I have a small group of close friends at my school and we've had a lot of fun times together, but lately we haven't been so close. The reason could be the holidays, but I don't know. I really love hanging with the people from my work, too, but we go to different schools and it's hard to get together. I'm insecure about breaking into a new group of people from this other school. Although I'm a lot like them, I still live a ways away and have no connection to their lives other than through my good friend. Should I try to hang with this group more? Or would it be uncomfortable for the others in the group?
2007-12-27 14:38:16 · 8 answers · asked by emiliakitty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't see why you can't hang with this new group. The more friendships you cultivate, the more you will grow in character and in sociability. It shouldn't take too long for you to fit in with the new group as you become more familiar with the people in it. I don't think the others will feel uncomfortable. In fact, they will probably welcome you. I like to think that every friend I have in this world was at first, a stranger. Some people just seem to click right off the bat, and others take a bit longer. So don't just limit yourself to one set of friendships. Circulate around and have fun. Good luck!
2007-12-27 14:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by gldjns 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with both groups (You can never have too many good friends) The other group invited you to hang out more so they shouldn't feel uncomfortable!!
2007-12-27 22:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a feeling that you shouldn't try to be in the group that is far away from you because that just might be oquard, also if you are far away i wouldn't try to br friends because in the end they all might just talk behind you r back or something they wouldnt care anyway because they dont live near you so i wouldn't even try it beacause they mightjust crap on you.
2007-12-27 22:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by chad c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short. Hang out and see if gets better. If not at least you can say you tried.
Nothing like not giving up! Go for it, who knows you probaly will come out with a least 2 more new friends.
Good Luck.
2007-12-27 22:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by vikingsorbust 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with what you truly feel is right. There will always be that hesitant feeling, don't get those confused. If you only hung out with them because of him, don't hang with them. What is that one thing keeping you with them? Think about that.
2007-12-27 22:42:16 · answer #5 · answered by Ryry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hangout with them if they invite you along and you feel welcome! I think the more friends you have the better life is. More connections, more parties, etc.. Of course it may be weird at first, but who knows you may meet some good life long friends!
2007-12-27 22:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by LivingMyReality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring your friends to meet your friends from work.
or just hang out with people from your work.
it wont be uncomfortable for them because they know you.
2007-12-27 22:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by dannie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should
2007-12-27 22:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by sarah b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋