My mom and I just had a really bad falling out. I told her that I don't like it when she lavishes too much attention on me and that I can't deal with the emotional baggage she dumps on me. She started crying and screaming and talking about how she wanted to die because she had a bad day at work and now everyone at home was being mean to her. I told her I love her and care about her but sometimes she does things that are just outrageous and I can't deal with it, so I end up avoiding her. I told her that I didn't know how to show that I loved her because everytime I do she just dumps more burdens on me. She is too needy and never gets out of the house, and I suggested she go try a new hobby and meet some people. She wouldn't stop crying and acting like I was being disrespectful and mean. She kept saying "You don't love me, I can't feel it" and "How do I know when to talk to you and when not to?"
2007-12-27
14:28:24
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The thing is, my mother has no boundaries and tells me things that I as her daughter just can't handle. Our relationship is so unhealthy.
Someone I know offered for me to move in with them, but they want me to pay rent and right now I just don't make that much money and can't really afford it.
What should I do to best remedy this situation? (I'm 18 now)
2007-12-27
14:29:37 ·
update #1