2007-12-27 14:21:52 · 15 answers · asked by Mrs. McK 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
With marriage love isnt enough. Falling out of love doesn't cause divorces in this country instead its someone being at work too much, not enough income, or the family not liking the arrangement.
2007-12-27 14:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by Virginia Chic 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Yes, I am currently married have been for 5 years and it is ending. I still love him but some how we lost everything else. We fight all the time, there is no respect and trust. We don't communicate, we took full advantage of each other and took our love for granted. We have tried everything to get back to that good spot, but it is gone. So now I guess it is time for us to make the hardest decision of all.....leaving! so scared, but our lives together is very depressing and I don't want it to affect our child.
We all need love, but the other elements are also so important and if you lose those the relationship fades. Good luck and be strong!
2007-12-27 23:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by sonsby1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love alone is never the basis of any relationship. There has to be mutual respect, mutual sharing of life goals, mutual feelings about religion and child rearing and more. If you married or got involved in a relationship for love alone you missed the point of a life partnership.
2007-12-27 22:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by dawnb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope, and I hope I will never be. I believe love is what keeps u trying, love is what makes it all worth it in the end! Love has to be enough cuz it pushes everything else along, if there's no love then there's no point! So if love wasn't enough then love was never there!
2007-12-27 22:27:08 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
quite honestly, alot of people don't like hearing it but it happens ALOT when you're not physically attracted to some who loves you.. It makes it tough to love them back
but aside from superficial reasons, it could just be that you don't connect or share many common interests/views
edit: i didn't answer you question... nope I've never been in that situation , the very very few times where it was all about sex we both knew it
2007-12-27 22:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by Undead 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I loved him to death...but there were too many issues that couldn't be worked out. I ended up not being able to stand the sight of him....I guess there is a thin line between love and hate.
2007-12-27 22:26:39 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yep. We STILL love each other, but the way he wants to live, and the way I want to live will never work. I believe in creating peace, he believes in creating chaos. So I let him go to create as much chaos as he wants without dragging me through it.
2007-12-27 22:28:50 · answer #7 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes and it was painful. what was painful? everything, going through it, the jealousy, the carelessness, and ending it. Lucky those who have found love to be enough, i just don't think it very possible.
2007-12-27 22:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, currently. Me and my long-distance guy are having problems and I know he loves me and he is my world BUT because of the way he is handling a certain problem we are having...i'm not sure if it's worth it anymore.
2007-12-27 22:25:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Yes, the relationship was so amazing and painful at the same time, I had to get out before he and it destroyed me.
2007-12-27 22:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by vjustmehere 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋