HELPS your relationship????????
i just read that artical and i dont believe it
http://www.yahoo.com/?r285=1198807694
2007-12-27 13:08:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
oh yea and what about the person you are flirting with ????? how would they know if its innocent or not????
2007-12-27 13:16:13 · update #1
I can't seem to flirt at all when I am in a relationship. I really don't want to. To me, it would only hurt the person I am with and cause problems. It may help a relationship... right out the door. If I want to flirt, I know where my guy is and he doesn't mind me flirting with him at all.
2007-12-27 14:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by Alright 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I agree with it so long as your in a healthy stable relationship. If your relationship already has problems then any kind of flirting is going to hurt it more. However with me, my husband and I are happy and stable. We love and trust one another. He actually enjoys watching me flirt with other guys; he enjoys having what other men want. It feeds his ego. Then again, I suppose I am the same way. It's a nice feeling when I see girls try to throw themselves at my husband, he'll flirt a little and smile with that heart stopping grin of his and then he'll walk over to me and kiss me or I'll walk over and he'll introduce me as his beautiful wife with a kiss on my cheek.
Flirting does build confidence, which is a plus for me because I've always been a bit shy and I do feel a lot less confident when my husband is not with me. So when I go out with just my friends it makes me feel good when guys flirt with me and I flirt back - again, my husband knows that I do this and I wouldn't do it if he had a problem with it.
2007-12-27 13:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am friendly to everyone and if flirting is considered being friendly than I guess I am a major flirt. It has never hurt my relationship though. I am very faithful by nature.
2007-12-27 13:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't because I'm going through that now and its hurting ours big time to the point where we might not have one , innocent flirting is one thing but just throwing yourself at the person flirting is disgusting whether you know then or not.
2007-12-27 13:13:57 · answer #4 · answered by BILL 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO, it helps to create a guilty conscience and that behavoir later becomes acceptable to the person doing it...
To Me, Flirting is a behavoir of when you LIKE someone, you flirt to drop teeny hints to them, then if they like you back, they drop them too and it most likely grows... all you're more or less doing is playing with someone's heart and leading up to a very unaceptable thing...If someone's that unhappy in a relationship where they have to flirt with someone besides their S/O, then they don't need to be in it.
look at where our society is going... Marriage is the new dating game, even it's not taken seriously anymore... it's just sad and scary.....
2007-12-27 13:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i don't think flirting in front of your "relationship" is going to help things. i would never do that. however, i have always jokingly flirted with my male friends, and they with me. it's not a serious thing, just sort of a term of endearment i guess. but i can't see doing it in front of your s/o....believe me, its innocent!!...also i think it depends on your personality. some people aren't good at flirting in a "kidding, light hearted" sort of way.
2007-12-27 13:15:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i wanted to see the article but it's not showing up. it goes to the yahoo homepage.
do you know where i can look that up?
b/c i'm interested to see what it says. Lately there's been a lot of "non-single" (has a gf or a fiance) that has tendencies to flirt and act like they don't have one...
2007-12-28 04:48:10 · answer #7 · answered by Just_Smile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it is harmless flirting ... There is a BIG difference between sexual, aggressive flirting and just being 'friendly' .... I think friendly flirting can make people feel better about themselves ... and more confident.... so when they go home to their mate, they can feel sexier and more attractive ....
:)
**EDIT: I would NEVER disrespect my BF by doing that in front of him (or behind his back) ... but as far as being "friendly" ..... the other person knows you are in a relationship (pictures on your desk, a ring on your hand .. etc.) so they KNOW that your friendliness is just that: being FRIENDLY! :)
Nothing more ... and nothing less !!! :)
2007-12-27 13:12:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Flirting is okay if it's innocent, it the person you're flirting with can't tell, then it probably isn't.
2007-12-27 13:17:47 · answer #9 · answered by That's Me 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes I flirt all the time and it keeps you excited.
2007-12-27 13:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by THing4CSA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋