or is it more complicated than that?
2007-12-27 12:54:07 · 20 answers · asked by jas j 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
No, love is partnership, sharing, giving without expecting anything in return, caring no matter what and accepting all of the same in return when offered. Love is a shoulder to cry on whenever it is needed. Love is talking about anything and everything without fear of judgment or degradation. Love is involving each other in every important decision and even some of the less important ones. Love is working though every obstacle along the way together and being stronger for it in the end. When you truly love someone they are a part of every part of your life for life. When you truly love someone, you are no longer driven by lust but a deep seeded desire to share and connect on a level that transcends the physical and the knowledge that your partner shares this very same experience. To love someone, really, really love someone, you must first be friends because only true friends are able to share all of this. Many people say that a love like this does not exist, but I can tell you that it does and when you find it, and if you are patient you will find it, it is the single most wonderful feeling you will ever know.
2007-12-27 13:16:41 · answer #1 · answered by Kevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,, its can be both. Its all about how you start it, and how far you take it, and how well you groom it. And maybe that should tell you weather or not it is LOVE or LUST with (trust)? But when love comes a knocking at your door, you'll never be the same. You wont think the same, feel the same, everything will feel brand new and than you will know, your in love. Then you tell me, if it is LOVE or LUST plus (trust)?
2007-12-27 13:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by The Fresh One 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust and love are two different things. There is complications with both....
Lust is a sexual desire but if that person you are desiring doesn't feel the same way, it could cause complications. Also, lust is the desire to have sexual intercourse with someone. Lust is defined as a desire for what is forbidden.
For example, if a man meets a woman and decides they have a lot in common, and she would be a great companion to share his life with, then that man has committed "lust".
As for love expressions of love may include the love for a "soul" or mind, the love of laws and organizations, love for a body, love for nature, love of food, love of money, love for learning, love of power, love of fame, love for the respect of others, etcetera. Different people place varying degrees of importance on the kinds of love they receive.
2007-12-27 13:02:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love does START with lust, which is the human urge to make babies (even if the participants aren't 'thinking of procreation' at that point) ... but eventually love grows much deeper than just 'adding trust' ... it means caring for the person MORE than you care for yourself, it means being there and understanding even when the person you 'love' is going insane, and helping them. It means sitting by the bedside in the hospital when that person is ill, and cleaning up after they vomit, or go 'poop' in their pants. Love is UNCONDITIONAL, and EXTREMELY INTIMATE in a way that 'lust' could never be. I know ... I am married to a man, and we love each other UNCONDITIONALLY.
2007-12-27 12:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is way more complicated than that
love is something beautiful and takes a long time to feel not just lust+trust it just isnt that simple
2007-12-27 13:34:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope... It sounds like you've never been in love... So sorry.
Love it's not complicated. Love is simple but, if you do not understand it, it is because you need to experienced it and then you'll know how very wrong you were...
2007-12-27 13:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is neither. Love is often mixed up with such terms as lust, desire, sex, want, etc, but indeed, love is more than that. Love is pure, love is sublime, love believe everything, love tolerate everything, love endure everything, love, never cease to exist. Love is the supreme force that keeps everything uphold.
2007-12-27 13:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by Georgy Lerfy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you lust someone you only find them attractive..lust is attraction love it the personality attraction...say you dated a total hottie and they had the worst personality that would be lust my friend.....love is more complicated that that.
have a great day.
2007-12-27 12:59:27 · answer #8 · answered by Nerd. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is about trust, loyalty, being strong for that person, listening to their worries and exciting stories but most of all its about wanting to be around that person for the rest of your life because they make your life better and complete.
2007-12-27 12:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by JJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This pretty much sums it up .... :)
Lust + trust + empty all my checking accounts for you + kids + now I am broke + eventual heartbreak = love
2007-12-27 13:30:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋