Is it ok to hate gay people ??

Question

Ever since i was little kid i always heted gay people

Answer 1

You can hate or dislike who ever you want... You got your own reasons..


I hate people that tell me hating people is wrong... :)

Answer 2

You have the right to hate anyone you please, though "tolerance" is highly pressed among big businesses and companies, especially in school. Though you may not notice it. So is it right, wrong, ok to hate someone? I couldn't tell you. Is it legal? Deffinently. Except when it comes to hiring people and such, then you can't let your bias' get the better of you. Lastly, you said you hated homosexuals since you were a small child. I find that hard to believe that you even knew what a homosexual was exactly until 5th - 7th grade. I can almost gaurentee that close relatives instilled this ideal of hate towards homosexuals in you as a child with manipulation. Such as a father telling you that they'd disown you for being gay, or just basically cursing their name when they came up on the news. Hon, in thgis day and age you're not going to get very far for hating a sect of people. Could i reccomend a sensitivity training class, or a "tolerance", not acceptance, tolerating page or two? It's sad really, what an impact parents can have, i bet you didn't have enough time to decide for yourself how you felt about them before you knew what they were. Well, since you are as you are, let me clear some cultural myths for you.

1. Not all gay males want you, you could have a million gay friends and they could have not even the slightest attraction to you. So you shouldn't feel so nervous around them.

2. Homosexuality has been around since the dawn of time. Though the terms were not split up, homosexual, heterosexual, ect. It was purely "sexuality", everyone was cool with it, did their own thing, and were not persecuted for it. Until the people who rewrote the bible took out the main women's roles in it, bashed at the witches, took out Jesus's own bold opinions, and made homosexuality a big No-No, gaurenteeing a death in the lake of fire. Pity.

3. Homosexuality is an illness and should be corrected. Wrong. And i'm sure heterosexuality is an illness, too. It can have some nasty effects to change ppl. When a parent changes a childs writing hand to the other because the left hand means gay in their eyes, the child grows up with some serious mental illness and disturbances. Now think about "correcting" a gay. Bad.

Ok, well, I said what I've said. Gays and Straits have no differences really, were just ppl, what shoudl it concern anybody what they do in bed. I know straits that do even worse. :) he he

so good luck to you on figuring out how you'll handle all this confusion.

Answer 3

I am a gay man of 45 and have been openly gay since aged 20. I am not the camp or flamboyant type in fact I'm very opposite, I'm more likely to have a motorbike engine on the kitchen table than a vase of flowers! I don't hate flamboyant gay men, I think 'hate' is too strong a word but I do find them annoying, I don't think they do anything for gay culture only leave some folk with the impression that all gay men are like that. But to be fair I also find straight men who act 'macho' annoying in the same way. I understand that in the past gay people have had to fight for their rights and had to stand out somehow - we were persecuted for a very long time and thank god someone did fight or we would never have moved on. In this day and age though we should just be getting on with our lives and all have equal rights and opportunities despite race, culture or anything else. Please don't get me wrong, I'm not against anyone being what they want to be and half of my friends are what could be labelled 'camp' - the bit that annoys me is that almost all of them are 'camping it up' for an audience or because it's how they feel people expect them to behave - I'm forever having to tell my partner off for doing it for gods sake! He camps it up because he thinks some people expect him to act like that - that's the bit I don't like. Hope I've made myself clear and not offended anyone - hope this helps!

Answer 4

You can have all the preconceptions you choose to. But children are born free of biases so whatever you know, it was taught to you. But I will caution you, most gay men and women are invisible. They will slip below your radar and break any preconceptions of stereotype you may have. I just hope at some point you don't get into trouble in your professional career and say the wrong thing to the wrong person. Because you may find that blind hatred may come back to bite you in the @ss.

Answer 5

Maybe you should spend less time hating people and learn how to spell. No, it is not o.k. to hate anyone just because they are different from you. I hope this was supposed to be a joke question. Grow up. It's a great big diversified world out there, and you better get used to it.

Answer 6

I've never really understood having a hatred for gay people. It just seems like a completely pointless hatred. It's exactly the same concept as saying 'I hate black people because they are black'. It's just one of those things that are inexcusable in my eyes. You should create an opinion on each individual as an individual, dislike someone for WHO they are, not WHAT they are.

Answer 7

is it ok 2 hate anybody? i don't hate gays or anyone. i just hate some of the things that people do, but i don't hate them. why do u hate gays? what bad things have they done 2 u?

Answer 8

well, I don't think it is okay to hate anyone, especially an entire group of people who you obviously know nothing about. I am sorry that your ignorance on this subject has led to the conclusion that you hate us.
hating people just becuase they're gay is like hating blondes just becuase of their hair color-- that's how they were born and it's stupid to hate someone for something they can't change.

Answer 9

Is it ok to hate straight people?

Could you come up with any reasons as to why you hate gay people?

Do you enjoy oppressing people?

Answer 10

Hate is evil. You may come to hate yourself if you harbor hatred, and you may waste your life and never make a positive contribution to the world. Think it over. Love is a better answer.

Answer 11

I've always heted people who couldn't spell