against you ?
people were being influenced to not talk or get involved with you....and were told to stear clear from you....like you were being socially ostracized.
how would you handle this ?
im a borderline personality disorder sufferer and feel these thoughts as i have for along time.
like im branded and theres a stigma about that im unaware about.
2007-12-27 09:58:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i would never hold people in enough regard for it to matter to me.....and neither should you. every one is branded with a stigma of one kind or another. (with no exception) life is no more than a brief period of consciousness that's all it is for ANY of us. every one is just another YOU or ME....trying to amount to more than they really are. trying to matter more than they really do.....trying to BIG UP !! its quite pathetic realy. you've got a whole world of experience out there. people are the last thing you should take seriously, that includes your 'perceived' standing among them. your life is more important than that. (so!! are you.)
2007-12-27 10:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have always had very few friends but do know a lot of people; the people I know are acquaintances. Too many people use the word friend too widely and actually concern them selves too much with being liked by large numbers of these "friends." As above-the people that would steer away or not talk to you because some one is telling them not to are not people you should care about knowing any way. Real friends are few and far between in life and they wouldn't care what some one else says about you. If short take a look at what you want is it a bunch of people who claim to be yours friends or a small group of friends who you can tell anything too and know they won't tell any one else and would never use it against you. A funny definition of a friend is that a friend is not the person that will bail you out of jail but the person sitting beside you in the cell saying "Boy that really was stupid but we had fun." Friends are beside you regardless of what happens r what other people say-forget the people who are told what to do because they are and will never be anyone's real friend at all.
2007-12-28 02:16:49 · answer #2 · answered by GunnyC 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would try go and talk to someone as quickly as I could to get some kind of medication to stop these obsessive thoughts from destroying my life, especially, if they turned out to be nothing more than paranoia...if you think about it, someone must have made you feel pretty bad about yourself, to cause you to distrust and think that for whatever reason, there is a conspiracy out to cause the whole world to hate you...this is not the case,..you just feel pretty bad right now, and this is a result of the way others have cruelly treated you in the past...you never deserved it, and still don't...no one is saying anything about you...you might just be a lot more sensitive to people, and the world just isn't kind anymore...God Bless little one..
2007-12-27 21:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, I grew up, graduated from that school, moved away and never looked back.
It was a wondeful experience learning that the world did not begin and end with the people who gave me so much grief when I was the oddball, unpopular kid in school.
I have achieved a whole wonderful life for myself and, looking back in retrospect, had I been happy amonst them, I would probably still be there and would have missed out on all the fabulous adventures that life has held for me over the decades since then!
2007-12-27 12:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by monarch butterfly 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you would like to be more popular and do not feel that there is much about you that is likeable.
It is my belief that people generally are far too busy concerning themselves with their own problems, doubts and insecurities to worry about you as a person so much.
If you find a few or even one person that knows you and likes you or loves you for who you are then I would consider you to have done as well as anyone else could hope to do.
We cannot be liked by everyone all of the time. Be confident in who you are, you are every bit as significant as the next person is and probably possess qualities that they can only dream of having.
2007-12-27 10:32:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
People who can be influenced not to talk to you or to dislike you are not people you want to be associated with anyway.
I would personally ignore these people as they are not worth it.
2007-12-27 10:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by petemctaz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would try to find some proof and wait for better evidence first,and then i would decide if it may or may not be worth worrying about.
2007-12-27 10:11:16 · answer #7 · answered by dudekindatallnhandsome 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋