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what do you look for in a guy??

2007-12-27 09:29:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science Gender Studies

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I can't really say. I like different people for different reasons and sometimes I can't even put my finger on the reason myself. Looks are important but its not a particular cookie cutter look that I'm going for and it may not be something that others find particularly attractive. It's more an air of confidence and assertiveness. I always go for the alpha male no matter what he looks like or what he's into.

2007-12-27 09:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Really? 6 · 0 2

In no particular order...? Let's see....

1. Not possessive.
2. Educated.
3. Motivated.
4. Active.
5. Outdoors-y
6. Not an attention hog
7. Not desperate
8. Healthy eater
9. Strong conversation skills, without trying too hard to be an "intellectual"
10. Treats others as he wants to be treated
11. Christian or understanding of Christians
12. Environmentalist
13. Animal lover
14. Constructive, optimistic

2007-12-28 00:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by YearoftheRat 5 · 1 0

1. At least some common sense.

2. Not stuck on himself.

3. Honorable. (Chivalry)

4. Not cowering in a little box of girls and cars.

Of course the question was in not out.

I do like guys to be tall. They don't have to be gorgeous, but maybe a few really good qualities.

2007-12-27 17:45:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

Physically, I look for:

broad shoulders
height over 6 feet (since I'm 6 feet)
full lips
dark hair
big hands, preferably calloused
built between Vin Diesel and Johnny Depp
(not too muscular or too lean)
And I prefer white men

As for personality, he MUST:

have a life of his own
have a sense of humor
be intelligent
use good manners
have common sense
show spontaneity
have similar interests
play video games
be a little nerdy
have a job
have goals
be driven
know what he wants to do with his life

2007-12-27 17:43:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1 3

I would prefer it if he is about the same height as I am and not muscular. The only things I really don't like is a poor attitude, excessive body hair, lousy hygiene, and bad teeth.

2007-12-28 01:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by RoVale 7 · 1 0

Firstable, I have to find him atractive, which is a bit difficult to understand, cause what I find atractive my friends doesn't, but to me is enough if I do.
In second place, I like a well educated man, at least university studies, I want a man who works, who is independent, and if that guy likes me that's all, the rest, we can negotiate on the road.

2007-12-27 18:07:39 · answer #6 · answered by Libertad V 4 · 1 1

Brains Brains Brains. Basically, a person with character. Someone philosophical. Someone who reads. Someone who has a strong sex drive.

2007-12-27 19:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by batain2002 4 · 2 0

looks: taller than me, pretty eyes, straight teeth, skinny, glasses

personality: likes videogames, can hold a mature converstion with out bringing sex into it, funny, loaylty, kind, outgoing, emotional.. you know all the normal stuff, and has to be able to take risks.

so basically my boyfriend

2007-12-27 17:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by <3 luke is here!! <3 6 · 0 1

Someone that is good looking.

Someone that makes us laugh.

Someone that does not have a lot of pimples.

Someone that is taller than me.

Someone who is nice everyday.

Someone who is fine with me being with him around his friends.

2007-12-27 18:36:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

physical: dark hair, taller than me, lean, big rough hands, full lips

personality: funny, outgoing, can talk about anything, feel comfortable in almost any situation, MUST be an outdoorsy guy, preferably works with his hands, adventurous...

everything else is negotiable, lol

2007-12-27 17:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by Amy 3 · 1 1

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