i know this is shallow but just bare with me and tell me your opinions..
1. Have that instant "click" with me /can have fun with/can be my best friend
2. Going somewhere in life.. (educated, driven, smart..)
3. Attractive (I dont have a specific type but do love longer/"shaggy" brown hair and green/brown eyes)
4. can keep me interested.. (unique, spontaneous, talks!) im not a deep person but dont just want to talk about the weather..
5. dominant personality-can take control but not controlling
5. affectionate or at least show me he's into me
Other plusses: not easily bothered/layed back/happy-go-lucky, athletic, take home to mom but not mommas boy, plays golf, good sense of humor, enjoys life, optimistic.
can be jewish or christian.. its a win win since my parents are of different faiths as long as that doesnt bother him
2007-12-27 09:17:46 · 21 answers · asked by hellen 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I think its really good that you have a list of things that you want. The advice my dad gave me was make a list of things I DON'T want! Its a good point because once we are dating a guy with something from that list we know to kick him to the curb!
Good luck on finding this guy! He sounds great!
2007-12-27 09:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by Porsche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think your shallow, Its good to know that you would just settle for anybody. its a perfect match out there 4 every1 so do your thing girl. But don't be too strick, if he's lacking in 1 or 2 places. BE AWARE THAT YOU CAN'T CHANGE A PERSON, IT MAY APPEAR TO WORK BUT 1 DAY ITS GOING TO COME BACK & BITE YOU IN THE @$$.
2007-12-27 17:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by ♡♥♡TIA♥♡♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's shallow at all! It's helpful to know what you are looking for in a partner... the hard part is finding someone who fits the bill, even though all of your requests are totally reasonable. Good luck!
2007-12-27 18:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by anon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This list is reasonable. I new someone that had something like 100 items on his list for a girlfriend, including look like Britney Spears and speak at least three languages.
2007-12-27 17:22:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not that much of a stretch or to demanding. At least he is not saying 5'8 110 36-24-36. I think it is reasonable
2007-12-27 17:22:33 · answer #5 · answered by my_blue_eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's what your looking for all the way good luck , most of those things aren't out of reach just maybe not all at once
Good Luck
2007-12-27 17:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by BILL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you find one like that keep him just in case the tow of you decide to take that long trip down the road of life called being married.
2007-12-27 17:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by atlantismeditation@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not shallow at all...that pretty much looks like my checklist also, although I would prefer him to be a heathen ;)
GCG speaks wisely, I have been divorced 13 years and the prospects do not look good...but DAMN THE TORPEDOS FULL SPEED AHEAD I say....
2007-12-27 17:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've been looking for that guy for 7 years...my hubby is all those things, except, he's not dominant, he' likes to be bossed around...
but you forgot loyal and faithful...which he is not, so since you didn't mention that he's all yours...
Yup he's the diÂck who liked your #5 and your #5
2007-12-27 17:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it weren't for your last religious requirements, you'd probably like to meet a certain bunny I know.
2007-12-27 17:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. E. Bunny A.K.A. Andy. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋