river of ghetto tears?

Question

i don't know what to do to get mylife back together.
im tryin and i'm not gonna give up. but it does get hard sometimes. and i have been though alot. and it seems like i can never get a break. i feel like God is punishing me. please someone help lead me in the right direction.

Answer 1

"I know you're fed up but keep ya head up"
I know that sounds easier than it is to do.
don't let anything stop you.
set goals for yourself and don't do anything that will ruin your chance of making them come true.
stay on track.
try not to get into fights because that stuff does go on your record (they call it a record because they're keeping record of every thing you've messed up and it can be used against you later...remember that).
You have to let go of the past. I know it's hard, but you have to do it because if you don't, it will hold you back. Don't hold grudges. Don't waste life on pain and strife, there is so much more to live for.
when you wake up in the morning, tell yourself...
"Someone did not wake up today. Today is a new day. Today I will succeed. I will not be influenced by the actions of other people. I am beautiful. I am strong. I have the power to control my feature. Obstacles were created in this world to be conqured. No one or nothing will stop me. I will live life to the fullest, but I will still be wise in my decision making. Today I will look forward and not back."
You can add things to it, you can take things out.
say it every morning untill you believe it.
Just remember...
you have two eyes and you only need one.
someone did not wake up this morning.
God does love you and he has something planned for you.
"If you take one O out of good, you get God. If you add a D to evil, you get devil. I believe if you do more good you are more closer to God and if you do more evil, you are closer to the devil."- Tupac Shakur
do the right thing.
you know what's right from wrong.
I really hope this helps you!

Answer 2

First the only person that can punish you is yourself. What you are going through is called life. We all have good times and bad times and times when we feel that we can not catch a break no matter how hard we bust our butts. I know I have been where you are. You have to sit down and really look at where you are and where you would like to be. Write down what it will take to get to where you want to be. Then you take one item at a time and you do it. No excuses. Be honest with yourself in the steps that you need to take. When you break things down into managable steps you are able to accomplish them a step at a time. When you complete the first step you will also gain confidence and even more fortitude in your ability to accomplish the second step. Before you know it you will be where you want to be. Once you get there don't stop again set yourself realistic goals. And keep moving forward. Life is here for us to live, and experience. We have to experience the bad to appreciate the good. You can do it. Have faith in yourself and your abilities.

Answer 3

You first have to identify a problem before you can address it.
First write down what your specific problems are:
I am lonely.
I am sick.
I am in debt.
Then out to the side write down where you want to end up, like making a map to get somewhere else.
then break each one down into BABy steps.
I am lonely...you want to get to having friends and fun places to go. To get there=talk to one person at work today. one Sentence. Then take cookies you baked to a neighbor. Next, smile at everyone you see. Then, if anyone asks you to go anywhere-go.Once.
Say yes to life and share who you are with others. bingo-friends and a social life.
YOu are in debt? write down that you want to get out of debt and have money saved in the bank. Baby step-stop buying coffee and make it at home. Pay off the most expensive credit card first. Don't buy anything for a week.
Chip it away, whatever it is. It got there over time, that is how it goes away.
YOU HAVE TO DO IT. It won't do itself.
God is not punishing you. Who could love a god like that?
There is a lovely person inside you that is full of love and forgiveness. You are layered over with crap right now, but you know there is hope and life and love in there.
Trust that.
Start right this minute to love your life. Love your body, your mind, be grateful for what you DO have. Just do it, don't question it.
Once you allow yourself to feel that love and peace you can go from there.
Close your eyes and listen to your heart, you know I am right.
Take care of you. Write me, if I helped you.

Answer 4

Maybe try to help someone else or learn something new. That always helps me when I get stuck.