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It seems only gay men have the tendency to be less masculine.

2007-12-27 07:18:10 · 8 answers · asked by Tamara M. 1 in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

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No, in fact there are men out there that even dress in women's clothing, yet are still hetero. (transvestites).

"Not all transvestites are transsexuals, some just want to be pretty men." (According to Eddie Izzard, a transvestite comedian)

Of course you can also take the gay stereotypes and show many instances of people not being gay, yet doing the same things. Things like male hairdressers and florists are not automatically gay.

Confidence in your sexuality frees a person from trying too hard to be a Macho male.. It may turn out that you really DONT like wrestling/ NASCAR/ sports, but DO have an interest in cooking, perhaps even sewing.

Many folks have their own ideas on what female characteristics are, but it's a blanket statement that implies women act differently than men. That's true sometimes, but not all the time. I think I know what you're trying to ask though:

Are all feminine men gay?

Feminine men are all not afraid to be themselves, but some have not been "proven" to actually be gay... that implies that if they're confident enough to act like that, wouldn't they be confident enough to accept that they're gay?

In my opinion, there are too many guys that are the product of growing up in the 80's -90's and are sensitive males that women were supposedly expecting men to be. As a result, they are often confused with being gay, due to being "in-touch" with their feminine side.

So yes, I would suggest that many ARE straight.

2007-12-27 07:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by Deadguy71 4 · 0 0

I think you get all types and the overlap is so much you couldn't tell. There were studies (by Kinsey and others) showing slightly longer penis length in gay men; some have actually interpreted these as due to HIGHER androgen (testosterone) levels during development. A lot of gay guys are very well-built--gay culture places a huge value on looking good, and this often becomes even more apparent as gay guys get older and they often still are looking for partners while straight guys are married. The fact that you have to look at Will and Grace--the stereotypical "gay" show for an example suggests you may need to look around more. By the way , Sean Hayes, the effeminate gay guy on the show, is not out of the closet and refuses to talk about his personal life. He's about as closeted as Anderson Cooper. There are of course some gay guys who are effeminate--to the extent it's pretty much a giveaway.

2016-05-27 04:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by nydia 3 · 0 0

no lots of straight men are very feminine. I know many gay men that are more masculine then most men. you just need to get out more and stop hitting on those feminine gay guys all the time.

2007-12-27 07:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jerry M 6 · 1 0

everyone on the planet has both male and female characteristics. it is part of human nature. some folks have more of one than the other, but that doesn't mean the other part isn't in there somewhere.

2007-12-27 07:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by KJC 7 · 0 0

Sure. The same as how not all tomboys and athletic women are lesbians.

What you like and how you act doesn't have any effect on what you desire in another person.

2007-12-27 07:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

they're called metrosexuals

2007-12-27 07:59:43 · answer #6 · answered by It's Sxy Jv B*tch 2 · 0 0

yes there are

2007-12-27 07:35:39 · answer #7 · answered by Wayne 6 · 0 0

yes
metrosexuals

2007-12-27 07:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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