Is there a hidden personality trait by addressing individuals very formerly?

Question

I have a way, though not intentional of addressing individual by their full proper name and not the contracted forms they normally go by. Example: Mike I address as Michael, Bob is Robert and Sue as Susan. Is there something in my my subconcious mind compelling me to do this? (note: this is just a fun question. Though true, this is nothing that is seriously bothering me or anything).

Answer 1

OK, I'll take a stab at a little analysis here, and hope that at least some of my guesses apply to you!

You probably are a rather precise, proper, and formal person yourself, so you are comfortable with addressing others in a more formal and proper way. Also, this form of address, being more "proper," keeps others at more emotional distance, so you probably prefer that distance, especially until you get to know someone really well. Since you do this (unconsciously) even when the other party prefers the more casual form of address, that underscores your need to maintain distance. You probably do not easily become "chummy" with others. You may be a rather intellectual and precise person. You may prefer order and neatness to a more casual, sloppy, carefree style. You may be somewhat compulsive in your need for order. You probably enjoy intellectual discussions, reading, thinking, and time to yourself. I could go on, but my probability of being correct would diminish, so I'll stop here.

Well, it was fun to give a "shot in the dark." How did I do? And thanks for the question and the opportunity for some intellectual stimulation.

Answer 2

No.

I know other people that do this.

I often do, though am just as likely to do other things to people's names (adding "ski" to the end, for instance).

You probably developed the habit just to be different in some way, to stand out.

BTW, VERY formally would be to use titles and last name: Mr. Jones; Ms. Smith.

Answer 3

From a personality point of view, you may be driven by a high conscienciousness. It is one of the "Big Five" factors (allong with openess, extraversion, agreeableness, and neuroticism) that are generally accepted in the psychological community.
I know a person who always calls people by their proper names, and I'd classify her as very high on conscienciousness.

Answer 4

A fear or reluctance for intimacy...? remaining detached and formal. Keeping persons at arms length. Courtesy. Treating others as you would be treated.

Be Happy.