We have been Dating for over a year and have been intimate once.. But Never really had the time to do it again..(Sad I Know) He's been away for some time and I want to be with him on his return if you know what I mean.. we really love each other but have never been so open to talk about sex... I guess Im too shy he brings it up but after a while I get the fealing he thinks I dont want it so he stop .. What can I do to change this? by the way Im 21 so no Im not to young to be aking this.. Thanks
2007-12-27 06:36:29 · 16 answers · asked by Ms.Dimples 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
We do love each other very much ... The only reason we are not so open about sex is because Im not so experienced and how can I talk about something I dont really know myself .. but anyways thanks for your answers... keep them coming...
2007-12-27 06:49:56 · update #1
I'm already on the pill but not for birth control reasons ... but hey might as well take advantage of it right? LOL
2007-12-27 07:06:06 · update #2
Ask him about it, and suggest you are willing. Most guys are receptive to that suggestion. Or, start rubbing your boobs against his arm, and get that "look of passion" in your eyes.
2007-12-27 06:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
from a guy point of view, try this. have him over for a movie. cuddle up on the couch together, and do the little hug, little peck on the cheek, little caress around the ear things. you get the idea. if he returns these let things progress naturally, and DON"T push away when the intensity increases.
2007-12-27 06:42:59 · answer #2 · answered by bikermog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get on birth control for a month (pill preferrably), buy a pack of condoms, and then say "hey babe, I've been on the pill for a month, and I have some 'happy hats'" and start seducing him.
2007-12-27 07:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the cuddling against him and just lightly tracing your finger tips on his arms, necks, and for my bf his abs. If he doesnt take the bait get more aggressive. Personnally I stradle my guy's lap and kiss him passionatly and might place one hand on his crotch. Still doesnt get the hint make a bigger move and undo his belt or button of jeans. Still not getting the hint, check for a pulse.
2007-12-27 06:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by Shan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my oppinion invite him over to watch a movie. when he comes over get into something really sexy. while watching the movie make out with him. then ask him casually. if not unbutton his pants and take off ur shirt than he'll no ur serious good luck.
2007-12-27 16:23:21 · answer #5 · answered by pqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you are together,just be very romantic begin to passionately make out with each other. one thing will lead to another. just let yourself go with the flow. sex is a natural thing can't have to much talking...with exception of the safety of course! when your are into the making out just tell him, he will be so excited he will not refuse. and girl just have fun with your boy...BUT NEVER FORGET SAFE FUN...
Good luck! ;)
2007-12-27 07:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to show him with body language that you want him in bed with you. Then try to ask him. Don't exactly try to push it.
Also try to ask him to take a shower then when he ain't looking try to open the door and jump in. Lol.
2007-12-27 06:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put on a nasty nighty and walk out in front of him after you get home from a movie and dinner. Trust me...you'll get it.
2007-12-27 06:53:34 · answer #8 · answered by Bad Brad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You love him but you can't be open about sex? That's not love. Maybe you guys shouldn't do it.
2007-12-27 06:40:51 · answer #9 · answered by Krissy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rape him?????just go on srongly im sure he wont resist you----unless there is a reason for ur lack of sex is somin bout ur problems
2007-12-27 09:18:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋