Im a 15 year old male and have been living a bisexual life since I was 12. I have a sexual attraction towards guys (meaning I get horny when I see a naked guy or think about a naked guy) but not sexually attracted to women. But I do love girls. I want to date a girl and get married and have children. I can't see that future with a guy. I feel like im bi but Im not sure if im truly bi or not.
2007-12-27 06:21:33 · 12 answers · asked by emodeud 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i told my mom that i was bisexual and she didn't take it so well. she told me that i have to experiance sexual relationships with a girl to see if im straight or gay. I love girls and sometimes think of them when i masturbate but i mostly think of guys. i guys this is so because i told myself that ive loved girls to long and its time to give guys a chance. now i want to balance that. my friend told me that i want to marry a girl but have a guy as my "sexual slave" honestly i have a girl crush right now and i think of her all the time but i have a guy crush that i thnk of all the time. the girl crush i think of 75% of the time and the guy crush i think of 25% of the time but that 25% is the time that im sexually aroused. i want a girlfriend but i also want a boyfriend. IM SO CONFUSED!
2007-12-27 06:43:37 · update #1
you are 15 and what you are experiencing is a very very common thing...
Don't be concerned with labeling yourself at this point in your life.....
2007-12-27 06:24:28 · answer #1 · answered by Wayne 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to label yourself or worry about whether you are a "true" bisexual. Nobody is completely gay or completely straight but rather shades of gray in between. If you keep your options open (and introducing yourself as bisexual will do that), you'll find the PERSON who is right for you regardless of what gender they are.
2007-12-27 06:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by Rollo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally think you are a bit too young to be worrying about getting married. But I can tell you this, avoid a life of total misery and lies by being honest with your female partners. There is no reason you can't have a wife and kids but it is wrong to hold these feelings from her.
2007-12-27 06:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most people are soemwhere in between 100 % straight and 100% gay, its caled teh kinsey scale. But dont worrry about labeling yourself, you can work the equipment on either sex if your attracted to and or love them., dont sweat it, enjoy it
BTW gay people adopt , and have children in vitro (so called test tube baby, witha donor or lesbian friend) so sont marry and have kids if ull end up getting offf with guys on the side and end up making you, your wife, and kids miserable. LIVE YOUR LIFE AND SEEK YOUR JOY
2007-12-27 06:26:41 · answer #4 · answered by IdaKnown 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would try to marry a woman and have some kids, if I were you. I agree I could never see a life with someone of my own sex. Good luck
2007-12-27 06:27:36 · answer #5 · answered by puellaromana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not uncommon for someone your age to have difficulty establishing sexuality. Much to early to make conclusions.
2007-12-27 06:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by bigjohn B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still trying to figure yourself out. Just live for now and when your time comes so will your answer.
2007-12-27 06:27:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are to young to be worring about gay, straight, or bi.... just do what makes you happy and figure that out before labeling yourself!
2007-12-27 06:34:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you be the first Gay who didn't want to believe he was? TV ,media and traditions make you want to marry a girl but your pecker is telling you different....
2007-12-27 06:26:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are sexually attracted to guys but not to girls then you are gay.
To be bisexual you have to be sexually attracted to both.
2007-12-27 06:25:35 · answer #10 · answered by nycguy10002 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋