Women, when it comes to bedroom activities?

Question

do you prefer a man who can take charge, do you prefer to be in charge or do you prefer absolute 50/50?

You can give percentages too. Ex. I want to be in charge 30% of the time etc.

So you seriously have no preferences at all? LOL

Lady Luck: thanks for sharing. I believe most women prefer to be with a dominant man in the bedroom...so you're not the only one...no worries LOL

So nobody has a preference, except the clearly stated Lady Luck? Interesting.

Answer 1

This might be to much info, but you asked. I like the S & M thing (to a point) and prefer about 90% of the time being submissive. The other 10% is the occasion. My partner and I both like being submissive so we usually make it 50/50. It's kinda funny, I am very independant and more on the feminist side but when it comes to the bedroom I prefer for a man to basicly objectify me. Is that odd?

EDIT: It's funny, if a guy objectifies me outside of sex it's a deal breaker and we break up. But in the bedroom it's a big turn on. My current is all about getting smaked around so when I want some lovin I back hand him and say "bedroom b*tch". We giggle then decide whos going to "be on top" from there.

EDIT: Hey, you asked I clearly stated. What happened to the pictures?

Answer 2

I think the best sex or one's the have the best sex are the one's that are most versatile sexually. because experiences aren't left unexplored. I believe people who are most versatile keep sex exciting and not mundane, as many couples that have been together for many years lose some of that zest or spark in the bedroom, because one is more dominant while the other is more submissive.

I believe interchanging and not going by ways, but more of the moment spices up sex and keeps it exciting and is best overall for couples as I feel one's who don't, don't know of what they are missing out on. I think sex is best when it is back and forth with passion, receive and give, etc. I like it more even or at least not set in and more of the moment kind of thing and luckily the lady I'm with is just like that, and I've had the best sex with her than others.

Answer 3

I have a preference. I want to be dominate about 30% of the time. I'll initiate but will let him dominate about 70% and I want it at least 5 times a week with a minimum of 2 performances a night....oh maybe my percentage should be higher...lol

Answer 4

That's the only time I like for a man to totally take charge.

Answer 5

I feel much differently when talking about "in the bedroom" than "outside of the bedroom".

I'm pretty interchangeable with it though.. Kinda depends on my mood. :)

I'm in a very dominant mood right now, any takers?

EDIT-I have preferences but they change with my mood. So I guess I don't really have a "built in" preference.

Answer 6

I wouldn't call this "taking charge", but I have more concern in pleasing than to be pleased.
My greatest satisfaction comes when she is in ecstasy.
Anything left over is mine.
When I loved, it's all over now, all the overflow was more than enough for me.

Answer 7

Depends on my mood and the night, mostly I like him to be in control but there have been a few times (and he did not complain) where I took over completely.

Answer 8

I think there are different bedroom moods. Sometimes, as someone has said, you want to "get your rocks off." Sometimes, though, you feel differently. Or I do anyway. Sometimes you want to feel pretty and desirable, you know, sometimes you want to feel dominated.

It's sex; it's different for me some times from others, at least for me.

Answer 9

This is exactly the kind of thing I don't talk about to people other than the person involved.... For me numbers/percentages and love/sex just don't mix....

Answer 10

In other words, what percentage of the time do you want to be aggressive, and what percentage do you want to be passive? For me, it's not 50-50, it's 0-0. I don't want to be either aggressive or passive, nor do I want my wife to be. I like it much better that we can both ask for what we want, and communicate sexually, and we each love each other to give to each other without either one of us having to "take charge".