i mean lots of people with fet!$hes, used to not have fet!$hes.
just like how a lot of teenagers say "i used to like girls, but now i like guys"
similar to someone saying "i used to like skinny girls, but now i lke really really fat girls"
i'm just a little confused because i DID used to like girls, but now i like guys for some reason.
so would it be considered a fet!$h?
(i'm trying to censor the word fet!sh cuz i don't know if it's a bad word.)
2007-12-27 06:04:24 · 12 answers · asked by hhhiiiiiiii peoples 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
well i mean if it has to do with love, i don't see many straight guys being boyfriends because they "love" each other. lol...
2007-12-27 06:12:29 · update #1
there's different KINDS of love, though. :P
2007-12-27 10:38:56 · update #2
no! fetish has a medical definition according to a book known as the Diagnistic Statitstic Manual DSM and whatever latest volume, a fetish is a string attraction generally to a non sexual body part or item (leather) and is usually REQUIRED in order to reach orgasm, a turn on could be u like getting kissed behind teh ear, a fetish would be you like to be masterbated while tied up, or with a leather glove. AS LONG AS ITS SAFE, SANE AND CONSENSUAL IT IS "NORMAL " and ok to do. If you liked girls and are now attracted to guys you may be bisexual, gay or whatever, dont sweat teh title or lable, love and lust for who you like, you can operate the genitals on either sex ;-) IF thats YOUR choice.
Sexuality -orientation though is not a choice, yes a totally straight man could force a penis in his mouth, that would not make him gay or bi, that would mean he had a homosexual experience, what makes you one orientation or another is what you fantasize about, what arouses you moreso than the partner. And orientation can change, develop as one gets older, through puberty etc, btw fetish is not a bad word its very common
2007-12-27 06:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by IdaKnown 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
A fetish is a bit more involved than just likes or dislikes. The actual definition of a fetish is that you can't get turned on or that it is very hard to be turned on without your fetish(es). This may seem similar to homosexuality, but the evidence indicates that homosexuality is not a mental choice, but it is a physical determination. Fetishes are a product of environment and are mental only.
2007-12-27 06:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Fetishes have to do with sex.
Orientation has to do with love.
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Edit: Why do straight people couple up and stay with each other for years? It's because they love each other and form a strong emotional bond.
Gay people are no different. It's just that while a straight girl may look to men for emotional fulfillment and love, a gay woman would look to other women for emotional fulfillment and love. It's not about sex. It's about love.
2007-12-27 06:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 01:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in love with a man....you appear to be still a child...you have no idea about real fetishes or love....yet
2007-12-27 06:32:13 · answer #5 · answered by Oberon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. A fetish is a specific turnon or stimulation to some people. Homosexuality is an orientation, an attraction.
2007-12-27 06:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by That Gay Guy for Da Ben Dan 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Being gay right now is an "in" thing with younger girls and maybe even guys. At least it seems to be. I'm talking about teens and 20-somethings. Fetish? I don't know. But I do understand what you're saying. Maybe you're just still trying to figure it out.
2007-12-27 06:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by Dreamweaver back for more 6 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Homosexuality is too main stream to be considered a fetish.
2007-12-27 06:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by IplayadoconTV 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
fetishes are sexual attractions to things or acts that are not people or more important than the actual partner....the answer is absolutely no.
2007-12-27 06:09:38 · answer #9 · answered by Cathryn 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No and it is not a phase and you cannot grow out of it.
2007-12-27 06:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋