on top of that... i just lost my job... shes going to be on sick leave for 6 month after the baby comes for chemo therapy...
we cant afford an apartment together right now and shes probably going to have to move to her parents, which is an hour away from me...
me living with her at her parents is not an option since were not married and shes not ready to be....
anyone have any advice... please help.. im at my wits end
2007-12-27 04:51:32 · 4 answers · asked by Krashnss 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i wish this was a soap opera... cuz then in an hour all my problems would be solved...thanks for your concern buddy
2007-12-27 05:05:53 · update #1
If you love her as much as it sounds like you do, and you want to be active in the baby's life as well as hers.... My suggestion is that since you've lost your job, move with her. No, you don't have to live together. Find you an apartment nearby, find you a new job, get a new start. A fresh start. Be there for her. What ever she needs. Be there for this baby.
You are all in my prayers! Congrats on the new baby coming. Good luck and may God Bless you all!
2007-12-27 05:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by hotmamaof3_1 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well depending on where you live, when you get a job try and get renters assistance. Try and get food stamps and wick. That is really shitty. Your girlfriend should change her diet, and go organic even though it is expensive, her health will benefit. Up the antioxidants and make sure she is eating as healthy as possible! Chemo can help but it kills all the cells. My mom had cancer and she didn't have the chemo and she is fine over 7 years later. Good luck!
2007-12-27 12:57:19 · answer #2 · answered by Love Child 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can get a job pretty much anywhere you want. So buck up, get a job or two or 3 and make a life for u, ur girlfriend and ur kid. I used to work three jobs and i know it sucks but u gotta do what u gotta do.
2007-12-27 12:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by mattface 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you've been watching too many TV soap operas! ;)
2007-12-27 13:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by skaizun 6 · 0⤊ 5⤋