I posted a question earlier about me and my girlfriend making plans to travel together with my son and here is the repy I got from Colleen O. I am shocked at some of the replies I get from people not knowing the full story.
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On the contrary, your girlfriend has no right in making ANY plans for your son. Your visitation time with him is to be spent with HIM doing what HE wants to do in HIS time frame...not catering to your girlfriend. Actually she really has no right being a part of your visitation with your son at all...WHERE in your divorce papers does it say that she is included? I doubt very much that there is anything in the papers that even mention her.
Your son's mother has every right to not want her son associated with your girlfriend whether you like it or not and, no, as a child care provider you do not have the right to have your girlfriend watch him if you are at work when he comes for
2007-12-27 04:35:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
key word. Making plans "TOGETHER".
2007-12-27 04:37:29 · update #1
according to this post I have no right to try and move on with my life and build a new family. Good answer Colleen O
2007-12-27 04:38:36 · update #2
Some people are just not nice. She is probably bitter that her ex moved on without her.
I don't know your question but good for you for making a family unit and being sure your son's best interests are at heart.
2007-12-27 04:46:15 · answer #1 · answered by Angela O 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have every right to move on and make a new life for yourself! As long as your child is not being abused and you are paying child support, your ex has no say what so ever in you having your child around a girlfriend, some women are pure control freaks and try to take their power a little to far! Be good to your child and also be good to yourself! Life is not over for you because you have a child to an ex.
2007-12-27 04:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by been there 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a b/f for 1 1/2 years now and he does alot for my kids, i see nothing wrong with you getting some help, not sure of the whole story u wrote but some people just arent ready to move on with there own life and cant stand the fact that there ex's have moved on. good luck
2007-12-27 04:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by #4 due may 29th 2009 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just think that they know everything about everything and their opinion is the right one. Your Ex doesnt have a say in how you raise him unless it is harmful and thats it. If you have to work and you leave your son with your girlfriend than thats how it is, its not hurting anyone for him to stay with her and Its probably jealousy that makes people mad anyways. Some people just need to get a life and quit acting so high and mighty.
2007-12-27 06:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by hotmoma_37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are the type of people that make divorce bad and she obviously was cut from the same clothe as your ex....
She needs some Prozac or somthing....
2007-12-27 05:07:29 · answer #5 · answered by Slick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, what was the question?
2007-12-27 05:41:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
verry good...
2007-12-27 04:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by Rex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋