How do i tell my best friend ( a girl) that im bi-sexual
im looking for help not insults
2007-12-27 04:11:36 · 23 answers · asked by Dr. Love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Women do not have a sneaky way of knowing this thank you very much. If anything, we pick up on signals better than guys.
Anyways, there's not way to get around it. You really just need to tell her, because sugar-coating it isn't going to make it any easier or harder to take. In the end, there's one thing it all comes down to. And if she's really your friend for who you are, she shouldn't care. Just be calm, sit her down, and tell her. No, "can I buy you coffee" or "how do I say this"
Just say it.
2007-12-27 04:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by Watermelon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you are a guy and she's a girl best friend she probably already knows something's up. Ask her how she would react if you told her you were bi, then after she tells you then tell her you are bi and you'll get a totally different surprised reaction. but i don't think she'll disown you as a friend.
2007-12-27 04:25:09 · answer #2 · answered by tuyet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just come right out with it. Best friends should appreciate honesty, besides she might be bi to? I wouldn't make a huge affair or a big deal out of it, because it is not. It is just preference, and it shouldn't change a thing.
2007-12-27 04:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by phuk it dude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, is it important that she knows for her information, or your need for her to know?...I always start with a question, like "did you ever wonder what it would be like to be with another woman?".....would you ever want to watch a couple do it?"... or something that gets you a little info on how to make the next step....or will certainly open the door..... if she grosses out, then justsay hummmm.. I dont think you will like the next thing I have to say....... or if she seems a little intuged, say, yeh, mee too... and proceed....What you havent told usis if this is, "are you really trying to find a way to tell your girl you have been cheating?....thats way different.
Good luck
2007-12-27 04:20:48 · answer #4 · answered by Joel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit her down over a glass of wine and just say it. I agree with the first person that she probably already knows. I have a friend like that and he has not came out yet and in all honesty I would rather he did. All the covering up is tearing our friendship apart little by little.
2007-12-27 04:16:23 · answer #5 · answered by adharris83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if shes your best mate she wont have a problem, The way i told my mate i was bi we just started talking about bisexuals and i randomly blurted it out, all my friends know now and there all fine with it, Alot of them have come out since then, She'l be fine with it dont be scared, good luck x
2007-12-27 04:15:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be straight up with her..if she cant accept it then she's obviously not a very good friend! but dont just go up to her and say "i'm bi" cuz then you'll shock her..which you probly dont wanna do..lol...just try to start a conversation with her about it and ask her "what would you think if i told you i was bi" something kinda like that..good luck! :D
2007-12-27 04:18:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at least its a girl that your telling. if it were a guy you will probably have problems at least more so. all the sudden you feel bi. i dont get it these days. what is the world coming too
2007-12-27 04:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by will987456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly. Quietly. Seriously. Tell her that you think she deserves to know because you think of her as your best friend. But before you do - make sure that you want her to know and that you trust her. It is impossible to UN-tell things to people.
2007-12-27 04:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by Nine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just tell her. Either she understands or she doesn't. I think bi-sexuality is bs, but whatever, it's your life.
2007-12-27 04:14:45 · answer #10 · answered by Callie T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋