Do women like to talk about sex? And are they just open about it knowing that they are invisible?

Question

I know that it dont exactly get there juices going so is it just curiousity to find out what other people think?

Answer 1

In my experience women are happy to talk about sex with one another, but if you are talking about 'dirty talk' then it depends on the individual, just like with men.
The invisible bit - is that referring to online invisibility? I would have thought that a woman who is happy to talk about sex online would be OK about it face 2 face, with people she is comfortable with.

Answer 2

I think you'd better stick to being that Silent Pen..........

> are they just open about it knowing that they are invisible? < Just what the hell is that supposed to mean?

> I know that it dont exactly get there juices going < I have a girldfriend (who also has girlfriends) who love(s the subject, and is / are quite happy to talk about it ...in the 'right circumstances' and without pressures.

Some girls and some men, do not like to 'talk about it', but they very often think about it.

Some people find it difficult to translate their feelings and the thoights that accompany them, into language ...and in a way which is easy to share with others.

You are guilty of making HUGE and sweeping generalisations. Which Planet are you from.?

Sash.

Answer 3

I don't think I'm invisible.

To answer your question, I guess it depends on the context and the point of the discussion. Largely, women talk about this issue differently than men and have different reasons for discussing it. Sometimes it's to find out what other people think, sometimes it's shared experiences, it could really be anything.

Answer 4

So this is your experience, is it, that 'it dont exactly get there juices going'? I think it says a whole lot more about what you are like in the sack than women's responsiveness. Try a bit of consideration, and you might have a different experience.

Answer 5

yes women talk about sex as much as (maybe more than) men do. And what made you think it doesnt get our juices going? sex is more to do with mind than anything else. and what do you mean by invisible?

Answer 6

Yes I like to talk about sex with my friends. :)
And some of it is from curiosity and some of it is because it's fun and stimulating.

I sometimes like to talk about sex online too but I don't know about the invisible part. I know I'm less shy online than in person but I don't think that's quite what you mean?

Answer 7

of course we like talking about sex, to both male and female friends and we are very open about it, we just talk about it in a different way to men,

as for not getting their juices going perhaps this is your experience, and you should change tactics, mabey you say things in a degrading way or something, that turns a woman off,

we all like a good laugh, and said in the right way, sex is a great subject to laugh about,

Answer 8

The thing is we women probably talk more about sex than you men because we talk and men in general dont!!! I bet when you want sex you start to touch your partner more than normal where as women do the same but talk more about it. The same goes with feelings women talk more about them men dont unless they are with close company of a woman ie marrige. I say what I want when it comes to sex because if I didnt Id be frustrated!!! LoL

Answer 9

I think women talk about sex MORE then men. We discuss it more, and are very open about it. At least, the women I know. I'm rather open about it, and have no problem talking about it. Of course, I've served years in the military, and you would be amazed at how quickly that destroys any notion of "shame" from ones vocabulary.

And what are you talking about, invisible? That part of your question makes no sense.

Answer 10

I talk to my friends (both women and men) very openly about sex. I don't feel that it is a topic that women should be *bashful* about. I do think the main reason that most women that don't talk about sex is because they are afraid of being judged by other people.