My ex best friend of almost 10 years stopped speaking since feb of this year because she didn't want to be friends with me anymore and I didn't do nothing to her. I used to call her and go to her house to try to patch things up but she would hang up the phone on me and ignores me. basically she treated me like crap around around Feb-March. Anyway she have the nerve to call my cell on Christmas day and when I saw her number I didn't pick up but she left a message saying " Hi Darlene, I know it's been a while but I wanted to wish you a very happy Merry Christmas and a Happy New year and this is from your friend, you know who." Would you call her back or Ignore her and never return the call? I'm still hurt, I've been the bestest friend to her to treat me like she did for no reason at all!
2007-12-27 00:46:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
would never call her again, just because she was feeling sentimental... you are expected to reciprocate...it took a holiday to roll around for her to call???? but it may bother you for a while, the only way i would call her back is to tell her that you dont appreciate the way she hurt you and you do not want to be her friend anymore seeing as she didnt care to talk to you for 11 months after 10 years of friendship. or have the respect to tell you what you possibly could have done wrong.
2007-12-27 00:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Rhonda 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I know how it feels like to be ignored by a friend that you've not offended in anyway but I think you should call her back or send her a message wishing her merry christmas. Christmas should be a season of forgiveness because Christ was born to take away our sins so lets also do the same. I wish you all the best. Merry christmas and a happy new year.
2007-12-27 08:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by kay_sack 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would call her back and be friendly. I'd also ask her why she didn't talk to me. If she was my friend for 10 years and did this to me, she must have had a good reason. Talk to her, be friendly, and figure out what happened.
She might have had a reason for ignoring you, or she didn't know that she was. I've had friends think I ignored them, and they came up and asked me why. I was startled at first, then realized that since I had so many important things on my mind that I hadn't been paying attention to the people around me.
Tell your friend how you felt about what happened. If you've been friends for 10 years, you'll work it out just fine.
2007-12-27 08:53:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would have to know what her reason was to act so ugly in the first place, just for my own curiosity. I'd show her how adults handle things, call her, hear her, voice my opinion calmly, and hang up. I probably couldn't trust her with my friendship again, but I'd lay all the issues to rest, forgive her, and move on and away from her. First time on you, second time on me, you know?
2007-12-27 08:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by Crissy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well just talk to her and let her know in which way you feel hurt by her, its good to tell people when they have hurt you, and then to let go from that feelings. It is proving by doctors that most of sicknesses and deases are due to unforgiveness, bitterness and you named it. Just call her, wish her the same and just have a tea talk with her, let her know how you felt and still feel and if possible be friends again. Just dont be hurt for ever.
2007-12-27 08:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by Monica S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
OMG - she actually did this! Ha! Stay away from her because she'll only do it again! Now if she really really try's to show you that she is sorry! different story! Maybe someone Hurt her and too embarrassed too tell anyone!! There are always two, sides too every story! Just watch your back side!!
2007-12-27 09:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe just text her a simple happy new year or something short and sweet, and see what she responds back, whatever shes tryin to do. Only because you guys were friends for 10 years - otherwise I would say forget her.
Maybe really does just miss having you around and finally realized she was an idiot ?
2007-12-27 08:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Life is too short to hold grudges. Yes give her a call and begin to associate with her again, but treat her with a long handled spoon (as the old folks would say)
2007-12-27 08:51:14 · answer #8 · answered by staymay 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i wud.n i'll ask her why she'd act like that to me. just try 2 work things out..if she wants 2 b friend with u again,dats great. but be frank 2 her dat u're still hurt n it'll take some time 4 u 2 heal the wound..it's normal 4 us 2 feel dat way.
2007-12-27 08:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by BlossomLilac 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What ever the circumstances are try to make things right and start off the new year with a friend then a grudge.
2007-12-27 08:51:19 · answer #10 · answered by orangie 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋