I've been married for three years now. I came from other country; and I'm on my permanent residency. My marriage is not good. I've been mentally abuse by my husband and I want to just leave him one day and go to my relatives in another State. I want to leave him in a nice way; but I'm afraid he might to harm with me. I am planning one day while he was at worked I'll pack my things and call a taxi and get a airline ticket and leave him. I don't think twice because he had done nothing good to me and I don't feel guilty on doing it because he don't treat me good. Too many to mention what he did but if you on my shoes you have left your spouse already; but in my case I cannot leave him yet because he is block mailing me and tell me to deport me to this country.I didn't do anything wrong to him. I don't have choice but to leave him if I stay with him my life would be in danger and forever I will live in misery with him. My husband just used me. He don't really love me. He is twice divorced
2007-12-27 00:17:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband had five grown children from ex-wife. I know he love them more than I. But my husband's plan is to use me. He avail of many life insurances and he is the beneficiary if something happens to me he is the beneficiary. He is a member of mostly credit union here in our place and he avail of spouse life insurances that I didn't know. I don't have the policy in my hand. He don't want me to use the PO Box I know he got everything in there. And I know his beneficiaries are his children. I filed for post nuptial already because he threathened me that if I remove all the life insurances which he is the beneficiary he remove all my name so I don't have anything even money he don't give me anything. I'm just a housemaid here without salary. He did unfairly to me. So I don't have choice just to leave him one day. Please help me.
2007-12-27 00:22:25 · update #1
Go to a women's shelter and find out about the legal and social services they can provide.
2007-12-27 00:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Rockhead 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should leave anyway. Your safety is the most important thing, not your status in a country. Consult a lawyer about what legal rights you have and move forward from there. Good luck.
2007-12-27 00:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by warrior 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Michigan is a no fault divorce state, if you want to leave, then leave. He cant stop you, and you will get half of every thing in the divorce. But you will have to file in Michigan for divorce. Go see a lawyer, and file for divorce.
2007-12-27 00:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by cris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have rights in this country. He cant do any of the things you said. Leave now and get legal advice.
2007-12-27 00:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by Islander 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have been married for 3 years, then he has no ability to have you deported, etc. You need to get to a shelter for abused women. They can keep you safe. They will help you get a lawyer etc.
2007-12-27 00:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by michinoku2001 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋