2007-12-26 23:18:53 · 14 answers · asked by Gilbert C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why not? all of us do mistakes in this life if u love her i think its not wrong to give a person another chance but if u will try not to remind her of what she did coz it will ruin again ur relationship it means u really didnt forgive her....i wish u happiness
2007-12-27 00:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by light girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now you are in conflict within yourself,, asking yourself,, "Should I let her go or should I let her stay." The fact of the matter is that if you really love her,, It is hurting you like no other pain you can feel. I suggest you let her go and tell her that you love her but that you can not trust her. Thsis is not only a test for her but one for you as well. When there is real love,, there is forgiveness and I know the masses out there will slam me for this,, but real, unconditional love is also forgiving. Again, let her go, as much as it hurts you and let her know that it hurts you. You are not married,, right? By the way. think what would she do if you had cheated on her? Right now,, no matter how hard you try,, there is a part of you that is telling you to let her go and another part that tells you to stay with her. Believe me,, it is very painful, been there,, this will make you stronger and she will learn just how much you love her by forgiving her. If she also loves you very much, then she will hurt because she is hurting you. Remember we are all human, capable of error. We are tempted and we fall. Also keep in mind that you may forgive but you will never forget. There will times when you will remember and may even get angry with her,, just out of the blue and she will remember why it is you are upset with her. The wound will heal but the scar will remain. Scars also are a sign of character, courage, ability to endure, life is that way. Good luck to you both,, you both will need it.
2007-12-27 07:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by jorge e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think no matter what we answer you will give her a second chance. You love her and don't want to be without her so you are will to by pass her mistake to be happy. I say that is fine but definitely do not give her a third chance should this mistake be made again. Good Luck!
2007-12-27 07:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by Flipper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could sit down with her and ask her to explain why she betrayed you. If you don't like her answer, then move on.
Also, what you need to find out is if her cheating is a continued pattern of behavior that she has, then, you are dealing with a person with low self esteem and trust issues and quite frankly, don't you deserve better for yourself?
Realize this...there are honest, faithful people out there to build a relationship with. You don't have to settle.
2007-12-27 07:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by Rogue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends on you. You have to look ahead and see if it will still bother you and make you wonder if she is doing it again. You don't want to live like that, so if you are not a forgive and FORGET kind of person, then you have to let her go. It would be better on both of your emotions. You don't want to live a life like a roller coaster.
2007-12-27 07:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by slc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't love what doesn't love you back. I think you need to seperate yourself from the situation and think objectively about what just happened. If you let her disrespect you once, she will eventually disrespect you again. I would move on, there are people in this world that would appreciate you more!
2007-12-27 07:40:26 · answer #6 · answered by Frankie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends on you. Usually if people cheat they don't change, but some do.I tend to follow this motto in life, with everything that has to deal with relationships, whether it be family, friends or a boyfriend..... If you screw me over once, shame on you, if you screw me over twice, shame on me. Good luck, if you decide to take her back, don't let let your guard down too low, and don't be very trusting at first either, you need to let that build up again.
2007-12-27 07:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by peyton31602 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make her feel hurt. Let her go.
No-one deserves to be cheated on.
And when you leave her she'll realise what an idiot she was for treating you that way.
2007-12-27 07:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by Monica. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her like a hot rock. If she did it once, she'll do it again.
2007-12-27 07:27:03 · answer #9 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun this is not an sms website thumbs up for trying tho...
2007-12-27 07:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋