Could love hurt so bad that you could actually refuse it? If so, please tell me how to think past that. If not, please tell me what I can do about it.
2007-12-26 22:29:26 · 14 answers · asked by rose 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Contrary to what somebody has already written in response to your question, L O V E does ALWAYS and per definition hurt! It certainly doesn't make it easy that life is like that. And what? It gets worse because the more you love the more you can get hurt.
But don't ever let it scare you, after all falling in love is the only way to find out what love really is. And you wouldn't want live your life not ever knowing what love is and/or what love is all about, would you?
Sure it hurts, but how much pain would it cause you never get any lovepain? Goodluck and lots of love from .....
2007-12-26 22:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by voborko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i can tell u from exprience LoVe itself does not hurt what hurts is ur ego or ur feelings. I jus lost my ture love few hours ago and i feel like my world has come to an end i dont think i would ever get over it but i was told by my bff's that the reason y i am hurting so badly is because i use to put into my head that we were the reason of the stinking word lOVe and never left space in my heart for bad things to happen.
who in there right frame of mind would want to leave space for bad things to happen wen ur in LoVe. girl i think u should take a while to decide what u really want to do, sit down and refuse the great feeling that love could bring (remember that love doesnt jus come from that bastard that did this to u it comes from family and friends that cares)like me or shake urself off say thanks to the guy who did this to u cause if he didnt hurt u u wouldnt know that LoVe could feel so great u dont need him to show u the meaning of love it's been there ever since u were born.
2007-12-26 22:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u really really really love somebody, and u went ou with them only to fin out they really cheat on u, or show their true colours and hurt u, and yet u still love them somehow, can really hurt, this might actually want u to prevent from ever loving again. Well not again but for a while, probably because u are afraid of experiecingthe same pain all over again. sometiems people lock themeselves away from love, so their heart wont break once more, or they find that someone they really love, doesnt love back, or they already haev a boyfriend or girlfriend, or they have been rejected ot something, this can prevent u from wanting to lvoe becasue u dont want to feel hurt or pain again, but one day u willl learn to relaize to cope and deal with it. but yesthe truth is love can hurt a person thhat bad, and wanting to make them stop loving.
2007-12-26 22:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by TheDarkness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love doesn't hurt. Love can never hurt. Love is bout acceptance and forgiveness.
What hurts is ego.
For example someone you love leaves you for someone else that person loves. You say that person is "bad". Bt is it really so? You fel hurt coz your ego hs been hurt. Get above it.
Love with detatchment and with the knowledge that everything changes, specially the form of love that one has.
2007-12-26 22:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Who cares?! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think hurt is the wrong word. Love might cost something but if it's true love it should help and not hurt.
We might refuse it because of the cost though.
2007-12-26 22:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by Robert B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah.. I think being in love can be painful.... but you need to know that you should not let that obstruct you from participating and enjoying it while it lasts... the hardest part is letting it go without regrets when it leaves... but that generates the best karma.
2007-12-26 22:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes, if you're not over and ready to move on from you past love. If you're hurt from it and scared to step into another love situation
i say embrace and open to it. take a chance. life is about discovery, learning and enjoy your precious moments.
2007-12-26 22:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by Betsy Boop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love doesnt hurt
losing a love hrts
at least i think so
2007-12-26 22:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by BreeZee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some times but not always.
If ur true lover ,then do the work (everything ) from ur heart he / she will definately reply u.
love is such that - feelings from Heart to heart are conveyed
electromagnatic waves, feelings etc.
Comman...... dont get upset.
Bye...........
2007-12-26 22:46:24 · answer #9 · answered by vinodkumar j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love will never hurt ....instead it would make u feel out of this world....ya but if love breaks then it definetly hurts....
2007-12-26 22:36:01 · answer #10 · answered by ohohohohoh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋