I just hook up wth this girl. She was one of my best friend. I dunno, she been teasing. We did it once when we was just friends, but she been kind weird on me ever since we hooked up. We never did again in our relationship.
Like we make out for like 40mins of so. I got her down to her underwear, but then she stop me from going any further.... LIke we just stop and like talk. >.<
She into it, she makes them pleasure sounds and our kisses are nice, slow, and passionate. She into it, but she stop it.
I don't know what is up with her... You ladies ever did this to your BF. And why? I dont get it.
And if ur a guy... don't you just hate this. that b***h! haha kidding! i just hate being tease. she so hot.
2007-12-26 22:01:36 · 23 answers · asked by cheng 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Raini--- I never lead a girl on... Life is too short to play little mind games.
2007-12-26 22:29:28 · update #1
Mariah-- Chill, I was just kidding about the B-word part. For someone that seem to be educated, you don't know when someone is kidding around.
2007-12-26 22:34:27 · update #2
Yeah one of the most frustrating things in the world getting hot with a girl and not being able to do anything about it!!
Guessing she is young? Maybe she is nervious about it, it once took me the best part of a week to lay a virgin because she was scared she would piss her self when she came.
But this is all guess work you got to tell her how frustrating it is for you and ask her what the problem is! Maybe you could just *** in her face as a compromise ;)
2007-12-26 22:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The quickest way you will get a true answer is to ask your girl friend in a nice way, why she does not want to continue seeing as you already have been intimate before. She is the only one who knows her reasons. Maybe it is the wrong time of the month.... maybe she is frightened about venereal disease or pregnancy. Who knows? Ask the girl. And don't call her a b*tch under any circumstances... not joking or anything. You can always leave if you find this too much for your tiny ego to accept. She is to be valued, not just to be looked at for your satisfaction only. Did you satisfy her? There is another question. Only dialogue between you will clear this up.
2007-12-26 22:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one, women are allowed to change their minds w/out guys acting like they're teasing b****** as you say. You don't seem to be aware of that.
As you say the girl you hooked up with was your best friend. Maybe she felt bad about hooking up with her friend, maybe she sobered up, maybe she decided that she only wanted to make out.
Just because someone is making "pleasure sounds" and enjoying themselves doesn't mean it will go further than what is going on at the time.
Please think about this before you end up doing something you'll regret in a similar situation.
2007-12-26 22:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by Mariah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you say you have had sex before right, so it would seem a little bit odd that since then she hasn't wanted to do it.
it could be a HUGE NUMBER of things, we are talking about a woman here!!!
your best bet is to ask her but dont make out like its BAD or WRONG or HER FAULT don't say to her "why dont you wanna have sex with me?" or "is something up with you?"
if you want to be a real gentleman, try to make it as if its your problem, then she wont feel like your attacking her
ask her "is something wrong? we havent had sex for (how ever many weeks or months) did i do something wrong last time??"
but if its only been like a few days or 1 or 2 weeks then i would say CHILL MAN she might have her rags or something! or maybe you have been in locations she didnt feel comfortable with! (like a friends house or something!!)
people on here will give you heaps of different answers but when it comes down to it the only person who knows why your not getting a root is your girl..
2007-12-26 22:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by **Jemma** 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's testing you. That doesn't mean you have to force her, but she wants to see how far you are willing to go the distance. But a better method to get her to give it up to you (this may sound cruel to some of you girls out there) is to ignore her for a while, then get close to another girl. SHe already kinda likes you, so doing so would make her very jealous, especially if done immediately after your little pash. The next time you talk to her again, she'll be all over you because she feels she has lost a connection with you.
2007-12-26 22:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If she is your girlfriend... you should be able to talk to her about this. If not, let her know you would like to be more than friends... or if you don't want a relationship let her know that you would like to hook up with her again... if she doesn't want to hook up with you again... maybe you need to stop messing around with a girl who you know is only willing to go so far... and find someone who is willing to go as far as you want...
2007-12-26 22:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by CaramelKitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey. Have you ever stopped to think that
maybe she has a REASON for not wanting to
bang you?
And that was kinda mean about the btch thing.
Are you say that you've never led a girl on, made
her think you liked her when you didn't?
2007-12-26 22:08:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ITs simple.... the first time you guys hooked up you sucked..you didnt know what you were doing and you didnt pleasure her...or maybe you just have a little tiny egg role...lol
2007-12-26 22:16:26 · answer #8 · answered by jessy l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just being cautious, waiting for the right moment! On the sides, giving you some good training as well!
2007-12-26 22:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by swanjarvi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I know how u feel,
That's weird I know but I thin they just feel some thin like uncomfortable or some thin,
Oh I hate it when they act dis way Gush....
2007-12-26 22:08:02 · answer #10 · answered by 1Motion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋