About 9 months ago I was dating somone. I really liked him, I'd even say he was my first love. Everything was perfect until he cheated on me. I broke up with him and within a few months, moved on. Now I'm hooking up with someone I really like & my ex is really getting in the way. It's been 7 months now, he's been begging to get back together. I don't beleive in second chances and I will never go back with him. I still have feelings for him but I feel more for the guy I'm talking to now. I don't have the heart to tell him to "**** off", what do I do to get him off my back?
2007-12-26 20:14:04 · 6 answers · asked by Chompyyyyyy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your current boyfriend all this, and ask him to help you...
Make sure to tell him that you want to take care of the problem, and that you just want his opinions and advice. Otherwise he might end up going to beat up this other guy, and you don't want that, along with the legal trouble the asult can bring.
2007-12-26 20:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have been through that before..we had a perfect 1 year and 8 months together until i found out he cheated me..all was a lie.
I never gave him second chance also bcoz we will suffer the consequence if il forgive him..so i let go of him and found a new boyfriend he is not as loving as my ex was but is sincere and honest to me..its that matters.
That ex was still calling me and send me messages and i also feel something for him but not as much as i do with my current bf..so i did was i ignored all his begs and calls..thats all..now he has his own life and i could say he moved on as well as i do.
2007-12-27 04:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by Judezen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and tell him the truth that you are in interested or in love with him anymore and let the new guy you are in love defend you because some guys get emotional and jealous and they intend to go something really bad to you or your new lover because my ex girlfriend dump me out of blue and I tried everything in my power to get back together with her but nope she said she love that overweight man more and before she meet me. so I can't do nothing to change that I was angry that I actually wanted to go and light up her car with fire because I put $2000 down payment but well. that is not a good Idea. I don't want to lose my life because of her so I move on and join Y,A. so yes guys do get obsessed over their ex girlfriend that is because you and him share something special before and he doesn't want you to give that special thing to someone else beside him and believe me Woman are the same too but I'm not gonna talk about that. well bye and good luck with him.
2007-12-27 04:25:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how u feel and be completely honest if he is in ur way with ur new bf jus ignore him or don't talk to him again. Basically jus tell him how u feel. The longer u wait it is goin to get in the way of u and ur new bf. Jus be tell him.
2007-12-27 04:21:13 · answer #4 · answered by Antwuan (Giants Superbowl XLVI Champs!!!) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order. The says it all! Plus, their are a lot of psycho boys and girls out there....
2007-12-27 04:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hands down & get restraining order. Honey, he f.u.c.k. up & it was the wrong choice that he made. When a man cheats on his girlfriend, he will cheat AGAIN. You are happy with your new man & please continue.
-Good luck
2007-12-27 04:23:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋