if i repent after each time i do it
2007-12-26 20:12:45 · 44 answers · asked by mandahh 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
i could maybe see my self with this guy in the future getting married. please dont call me 'whore' because i dont sleep around its only with 1 person
2007-12-26 20:46:58 · update #1
No you wont go to hell. It isn't a mortal sin. I wouldn't bother repenting each time after you have sex either that just sounds stupid. Sex is meant to be enjoyable and shouldn't give you guilt. Saving yourself for marriage in todays world is near impossible, don't restrict yourself to a rule written thousands of years ago, have as much sex as you want its your body, so it's your decision.
2007-12-26 21:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by Haydz 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you are Muslim, in Islam, nobody knows whether you are going to hell or not, even the guardian angel of hell.
Only God knows. But God tell us that sex before marriage is a major sin, and sin bring you closer to hell, if you do not sincerely repent with the intention of not repeating that mistake again.
Bad deeds bring you closer to hell. Good deeds will bring you closer to heaven.
God words in the Quran Surah Al-Qariaah verse 6 - 11;
(Meaning)
6. Then (everyone shall be placed according to his deeds). He whose scales are heavy,-
7. Shall dwell in bliss.
8. But he whose scales are light,-
9. The Abyss shall be his home.
10. What could make you conceive what that (Abyss) will be?
11. (The Abyss is) a raging Fire.
2007-12-26 20:33:53 · answer #2 · answered by ibn Masud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say God tells us to love one another right?
And if youre in love and you decide to have sex before marriage... its your own choice.
Obviously you know its not the best thing to do, but I think God understands. He gave us the choice to choose and sometimes not every choice is the best. The question is; is this the person you can see yourself spending the rest your life with? If not, then it may be a waste of time, and a waste of sin.
But its your own choice, not anyone elses.
Hope this helped.
2007-12-26 20:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People have different beliefs on what is a sin and whats not, especially regarding sex before marriage. I dont think you will go to hell, otherwise hell would be quite a crowded place
2007-12-26 20:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
We are in a fallen state, the world is not perfect because God wanted us to choose him, and not be like robots, who would know nothing but to worship. He gave us the decision to follow him, or to choose the wickedness of the world. Adam and eve chose the evilness of the world, so now, we are also sinners. no one is perfect. Its very hard to avoid temptation, believe me, ive made many mistakes in my short 16 years of life, but I do feel like crap after, and my question to myself is always why did i do it again , and again, after knowing i feel bad afterwards? Jesus said that if you ask him for forgiveness then you will be forgiven, and its almost as if your slate is being cleaned every day. Thats ot an excuse to go off and do it though, and figure its alright because he forgives you.Then its not alright?I dont know.All i know is that Jesus knows your heart, he made your heart, he made evry hair on your head, and he expects us to sin. But if you open up to him with a sincere heart with sicere apologies, then im pretty sure he will forgive you.Its hard to answer this question , cause im in the same position with a different sin. I cant stop, and i feel bad afterwards, but you know what I know i can stop. And writing to you, helped me haha,
-Sara
2007-12-26 20:49:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, with everything going on in this world today... what makes you think God cares that you are having premarital sex? Seriously?
Have your fun, be safe, and stop repenting, that's just a waste of time... not to mention, I hope you aren't confessing that to a priest, that would just be wierd.
Obviously, God hasn't smoted you down, so I think you're gonna be okay.
2007-12-26 20:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by **[Witty_Name]** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a friend who stole from you, what would you do? Say it was a perfume bottle. Would you keep buying the perfume again and again, and let them keep stealing from you? But they said sorry, so it's okay.
Imagine God, watching over us. Time is worthless to him, so it could be an eternity watching his child sin over and over.
As an SDA Christian, I believe the teachings of the Bible. In Revelation it states that we have a judgment day. Would you plead ignorance? In court, ignorance is not a real pledge. Guilty or Not Guilty, Ignorence aside.
God created sex for us to enjoy. Adam and Eve were not married, but, before sin, there was no Adultery. And no such traditions existed.
"Every eye will see and every ear will hear" When Jesus comes back to earth for the Second Coming. He loves you. I assume you love your partner if you are going to do that, would you like them to have your sex on their conscience?
"Whatever you do to the least of these, it is like you are doing them to me". Wouldn't it be nice to say to God, "When I was hungry, you clothed me. When I was naked, you clothed me."
Jesus loves you very much, and he wants the best for you. But we have free will, so that's your choice.
2007-12-26 20:25:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You do not know it is a sin. You believe it is, small difference.
Does guilt add to the pleasure?
Please go ahead, but do not forget to repent a lot.
2007-12-26 20:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by kwistenbiebel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having sex out of wedlock isn't a sin ......... sex in a loving and caring relationship is something to be cherished and respected, not feared. You will not be going anywhere but ec*tasy if you are truly in love with this person.
CHEERS
♥
2007-12-26 20:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by Minx 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will. You may aslo go to a clinic if you're not careful. Picking your nose when no one is looking is also a sin. Remember, Jeebus is watching and taking notes so he can snitch on you.
2007-12-26 20:21:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋