i like this guy but he has a girlfriend and i just can't stop liking him i know i can't like him beccause he does have a girlfriend but the more i try not to like him, i like him more what should i do
2007-12-26 15:02:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you have to "play the game" chances are he won't have a gf forever, so be his friend, his very CLOSE friend. Without stepping over the boundries or telling him you like him, if he doesn't already know. Then you'll be in a perfect position to be there when they breakup and it all falls apart. He'll lean on you, tell you what a wonderful girl you are for listening to his problems and BINGO.. you slide right in. So just bid your time, keep a journal of your feelings in the mean time to help you emotionally vent. Try not to tell to many friends that you like him, or he'll find out that your a friend with motives. And won't be as trusting. Hope it helps, and you can always date other guys and try to double date with him, show him what he's missing.
2007-12-26 15:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Southern B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I had the same problem, I told the girl, and gave her some time to think about what I told her, and about a month later we started going out. It's easier for guys because all you have to do is treat her well, but it's much harder for girls...just try telling him how you feel, and be nice to him, but not too nice because then he might be creeped out a little, sorry if that didn't make any sense lol.
2007-12-26 23:07:09 · answer #2 · answered by pspkilla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you like him? I realize you all seem to have this really weird idea that "liking" someone is somehow a really serious thing, when "liking" someone is what you do to a friend. So, be his friend and like him all you want. Better yet, like them both and maybe it will grow into something more.
2007-12-26 23:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new guy to crush on. Like some celebrity thats single.
2007-12-26 23:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by alexia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same situation...then i found another guy to like. I guess it was because i didnt really see the guy for a while so that helped.
2007-12-26 23:08:32 · answer #5 · answered by That Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone!!!
A man with a girlfriend should not be attractive to you. Find yourself a single man. How would you like it if some girl dated your man?
2007-12-26 23:08:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tanya O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone or be ready to deal with his girlfriend.
2007-12-26 23:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by emjbroncos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay the hell away!!! i wouldnt get involved in someone elses relationship because you will get hurt.
you could let him know that you like him, then leave it to him to decide what to do. but please for your sake dont get involved with him until he is single.
people always want what they cant have
2007-12-26 23:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on how old are you ? 15?
2007-12-26 23:08:28 · answer #9 · answered by tweettreat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby and think of something else.
2007-12-26 23:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by heart o' gold 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋