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My guy has had tons of stress building up for about a month and 1/2 now. We got into it about a month ago and now he is still holding it over my head, blaming me for everything, I think he has a lot of anger built up he jumped out of the car and yelled at someone for honking thier horn and thats not like him. He is being mean to me, I cant talk to him about it because he just gets more frustrated. I love him more than anything and dont want to leave. Will this blow over? He is still blaming me for saying something real mean durning a fight abut a month ago that I never meant and I apologized. there are signs that he still wants me here then there are signs that he doesnt, Im scared with all the stress build up that if I push him for answers he will have me leave, Please help. I want to do everything I can to fix this, I want leaving to be a last resort. He tell me he needs space.

2007-12-26 14:53:20 · 4 answers · asked by coronaqt2004 1 in Health Mental Health

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hon, believe me was all have someone we love deeply, but can't be with. You deserve more.
If you honor your vaule as a woman you will not have a guy who acts like this. Move on.
I know you love him but it will pass

2007-12-26 14:57:57 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0 0

I know you don't want to hear anything about leaving him,
because you love him so much.
(Been there, done that.)

Loving him with all of your heart, soul and mind will not heal him. All the love in the world can't change him. Unless he is willing to get help for his anger problem. The anger in him obviously needs to to dealt with. But not with you. If you live together, I'd insist on couple counseling. But if you don't, he needs to speak with counselor or at least somebody he can trust, and work this out, himself.

You can't do it for him. Love him from a distance. That's the best thing you could do for him. Back off, if you don't want to lose him. Give him some breathing room. Tell him you love him, but will not be subjected to his anger fits. And to call you when he's more calm.

It's the best thing you could do for yourself and him.

Good luck, and God bless!!

2007-12-27 11:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by C Sunshine 6 · 0 0

Perhaps you just need some time apart. He needs to talk to someone, and so do you. Do you live together? Perhaps you should move out until this is resolved.

2007-12-26 23:00:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kissthepilot 6 · 0 0

he needs space.......give it to him. he will come back when he is better and ready.

2007-12-26 23:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by mireya_adame 2 · 0 0

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