Ok, I'm a guy and do wear girl clothes. My parents are fine with it and so are my friends. I'm very popular. My grandparents are VERY strong Christians and they say it's inappropriate. I actually in the Christmas choir for my school and I was wearing a Santa dress. After the concert alot of my friends were saying I did a really good job on my solo and my grandparents came up and all they did was scold me. I actualy got a really nice dress for Christmas from my girlfriend and they freaked out.
What should I do?
2007-12-26 14:02:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
No I'm not gay! And yes I wear skirts, dresses, ect.
And yes, I have a girlfriend!
And why the heck would I need therapy for?
2007-12-26 14:19:25 · update #1
My grandparents are the only ones that are not okay with it!
2007-12-26 14:23:01 · update #2
Yes, I shave and wax my body hair and wax my eye brows and shave my facial hair.
2007-12-26 15:00:25 · update #3
I also have long hair.
2007-12-26 15:02:08 · update #4
No I'm not gay ok?!
And I'm not blonde, I'm a burnett.
And my girlfriend isn't a tomboy.
2007-12-27 10:02:24 · update #5
If you like dressing up in girl's clothes, then do it, don't let other people dictate how you live your life or how you like to dress too.
jk
2007-12-29 11:37:50 · answer #1 · answered by J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a fetish you have? Sounds a little off. You have a girlfriend too? Hmmm....
EDIT: You're the one who asked this question. You knew what kind of feedback everyone else was going to give you. Sorry if you get all offended over this, but it's just strange to be a guy wearing dresses...duh. It has and it'll always be. Deal with it.
2007-12-26 14:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by Violet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude forget what your grandparents say, if you really gonna be petty about it tell your parents to speak to them and go on living your life, i'm a crossdresser to be in the future. I'm stopping now until 28 coz thats when i can feel safe. But you got everyone to support you so forget your grandparents.
2007-12-29 07:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh. i don't know. that is not natural. but if i were your grandparents, i would freak out too. i think they scolded you because your descisions reflect on the family and by doing that, that makes everyone think that your family is okay with it. and they are not from what you say. well at least your grandparents. but i guess whatever makes you happy. do what you want.(not saying that i support this)
2007-12-26 14:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Lizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your own prefrence, i have a friend who does the same thing, i am fine with it. Grandparents lived in a time where it was really bad to do what your doing. First try talking to them, dont be surprised if they just scold you. Don't worry about them, just do what you feel comfortible doing. :)
2007-12-26 15:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by Blue_roses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly dude its never easy to satisfy everyone, the easiest thing to do is try to reason with them but if that doesnt work, then dont wear the girl clothes in a place where they would be at
2007-12-28 12:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by random at its finest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he's obviously not gay if he has a girlfriend. if this is what you want then it should be fine with your grandparents. they love you right? then they should want you to be happy, no matter what it takes.
2007-12-26 14:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by Katelyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHA! I NEED A PICTURE! It sounds like you are pretty gay to me!!
2007-12-26 15:23:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats discusting. Do you atleast shave.wax your legs when you wear FEMINIE CLOTHING.
2007-12-26 14:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by believe.dance.inspire ; 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
r u blonde? is ur gf a tomboy??
2007-12-27 08:50:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋