ok.im 24 years old and ive only had sex once. my first time wasnt A very good expirience, but someone is offering sex. its my bestfriend chris, hes very expirienced on this subject(since he knew wat the penis was for, he started using it) well we know each other since we were in high school but im in LOVE with him, he knows that i like him and i think he just wants to have sex w/ me.But i love him.how about if hurts my feelings? i dont want to end a beautiful friendship just cause of that but every time i think of him i just want to say yes but ,,how about him?maybe he'll fall in love with me............
plz i need advice!!!! should i say yes?? or no?? why ???
thanx for time and advice....
2007-12-26 13:50:05 · 5 answers · asked by ★♥Jocy♥★ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you may love him but if he just wants to have sex with you then he probably isn't worth it.....i always think that both the ppl should love each other or at least like each other before having sex (call me old fashioned) but you can never expect or think that maybe he will learn to love you.....because now that he knows you like him a lot......if he has experience like you say...he will no how to take advantage of you..and use you! The fact that he knows you like him , opens up doors for him so that he can do this. Regardless if you are good friends. Guys are Guys....you cant change that! i would say no....and if he gets mad and stops being your Friend...then you no he doesn't respect you! good luck!!!! and try not to fall in to temptation!!
2007-12-26 13:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by peace love & lipgloss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lets see were to start I would say no because you are not sure that he feels the say way about you. you first need to know it he dose and not just as friends as the real thing. if you are not dating him then ask him to be your boyfriend and see what he says.IF he says no then you have your answer, if he says yes then make sure that all his and your friends know that you are two together or else he'll say that you will give it up to any guy. and that might not be true. and date for at least three to six months just to be sure because if he really dose love you they you do him he will wait for you until your are sure you want to make love to each other.
2007-12-26 14:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by Shygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all.
A man having sex with you will NEVER fall in love with you.
You need a relationship and time to build upon that.
Now, for your question, you're just going to be used by him. That being said, choose what you will.
2007-12-26 13:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tony^^ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its just for sex then dont do it ---- it will churn you up emotionally especially if he does not care for you ---- sit him down and talk to him --- even if you have to tell him how you feel and you may find that he is interested in more than just sex (i cant believe someone who is a friend is just suggesting sex --- there must be more to it) ---- best wishes
2007-12-26 13:55:52 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think he just wants sex then say NO. sex will not fix your problems, trust me.
2007-12-26 13:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋