dont women understand that when that guy approaches them 1st, he obviously does the same to other women? its like then they wouldn't get played on rite? why dont they just go for the quiet type of guy whos laidback and doesnt make the move, coz obviously that queit guy wont make the move on other girls? why dont women see this and fall for the obnoxious idiot guys anyways? are they dum?
2007-12-26 13:36:40 · 28 answers · asked by vanilla_thrilla01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women are way smarter than men. So smart that they think that we are as complex as them. That's the main reason why they go for 'dangerous' or rich or cute or obnoxious guys. Then, after a couple of decades of abuse, they moan, "Where are all the good men?" even though they drove over a couple of dozen of them to get to the guy with the cigarettes rolled up in his T-shirt sleeve. Screw em. You want love, buy a dog. You want loyalty, your guy friends are loyal. You want sex, get a woman. The minute you empower them with "love" they will dump on you all they can.
2007-12-26 13:42:15 · answer #1 · answered by Sarrafzedehkhoee 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not all girls do, i know i personally cannot STAND an obnoxious aroggant guy. I guess some girls do because the obnoxious guys are the only ones that go after them, alot of girls LOVE being chased.
I like laidback guys, but you can't sit there and let the girl do ALL the work, once you see she's interested, then you need to make a move, so we know where your coming from too.
Unfortunately for you "laidback" guys, some guys are TOO laidback and that's why the obnoxious idiot can sneak in everytime because at least they tell us (with corny pick up lines) that they are into us.
2007-12-26 13:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by laangel464 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, many women (girls) feel they can change that type of person. Maybe a personal challenge, insecurity, or to "show" other women "they" can get, change and keep them. That loud obnoxious "player" knows her game (a challenge easy to conquer) and plays it well. Their day will come - usually later rather than sooner. Just be on the side line...she will fall out of the game soon or get bored with him. If you are experiencing and feel you lost the race...keep your own pace remember the Golden Rule and be yourself...the plan for you hasn't arrived yet. Good Luck!
2007-12-26 13:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by livelovehavfun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are competitive in nature, so they compete for the guy with the women all around him. Women desire the unattainable, unavailable man because he is not predictable and does not focus on just one woman. Nice guys give all of themselves to a woman, so where's the fun in that??? Women love a challenge, and nice guys don't provide any whatsoever. The nice guy seeks approval from a woman, and that turns women off big time. He also establishes her as the prize, not the other way around. Jerks are extremely confident and their social skills are superior. Nice guys don't finish last, they don't finish at all. Good luck!
2007-12-26 13:46:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, we don't always fall for the obnoxious guys. It's the fact that the guy had the guts to walk up to us is what gets us. Sure, we don't always go for them but we like a guy who can make the first move. Women enjoy guys who like to have fun and make a little noise. But I'm not saying that we always go for those. It's all depending on the girl and what kind of guys she's into.
2007-12-26 13:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by K. 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I always think of this in a little analogy that a friend of mine told me.
Imagine that guys are apples on a tree. The best ones are always towards the top of the tree and enjoy the most sunlight, and the bad ones drop off the tree onto the ground. Most girls fear climbing the tree for the good apples because they might fall (get rejected) so they pick up the ones from the ground.
It's not that they are dumb, but they are afraid of rejection (most of the time anyways).
2007-12-26 13:40:49 · answer #6 · answered by csi_2_be 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most gilrs like the attention, and there's something about their outgoing behavior that makes most girls just feel good.
But alot of girls also like the non obnoxious guy. Most girls who go for the obnoxious aren't too much of something and probably aren't weren't chasing either.
Personally i like a guy who will approach me but treat me the way a woman should be treated.
2007-12-26 13:42:08 · answer #7 · answered by rosemaiden005 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls are attracted to confidence not loud and obnoxious, there is a difference. Be confident not arrogant and you will get most girls attention. Getting a girl attention is one thing, keeping it is another. The truly obnoxious guys don't get the girl ! we are not stupid, but we do like attention, who doesn't. Good luck
2007-12-26 13:44:21 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I run fast and far away from the loudmouth because he will soon make a fool out of me too, especially if he is having a drink. The quiet thoughtful guys with the lingering eyes and shy demeanor are the ones with the feelings.
2007-12-26 13:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by Dovey 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it is because we have a habit of sticking to our friends when we go into public (which is, I assume, where we would meet said men). Also, If they come up and talk to us first, we not only avoid the pre-conversation jitter, but we feel a bit more confident. Alot of women feel self-conscious about some aspect of our appearance, and when a man singles us out of a crowd we are assured to some extent. I hope this helps...somewhat.
2007-12-26 13:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋