yea i was toasted yesterday and i got jumped by 2 girls who used to be my friends. im really beat up and i wanted to tell the cops but im technically not legal to drink yet. and i havent even told my mom..........she hasn't seen me yet. Should I tell her i was drunk or should I just tell her I got beat up? But what if she wants to call the cops? what should I do?
2007-12-26 13:22:09 · 21 answers · asked by Holly Golightly 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Never ever do something that you should not do including drinking
Now you must tell your mum and tell the whole trth and not some of it
If you are not going to tel or if you nly tell some of it sooner or later she will find out the whole truth and from then on she'll always have a doubt on whether you are telling the truth or not
If you want trust and respect you must never fail by telling lies or part lies.
Always be honest and fully truthful and you'll always be respected and trusted for it
Go and tell your Mum all of it Now!
2007-12-30 06:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by raffaele1111 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
There is an old legal adage "that a drunk person is just as entitled to a good sidewalk as a sober person and more in need of one."
Just cause you were drunk is not an excuse for your friends to beat you up. The opposite is true. You were vulnerable and they took advantage of you.
You have every right to complain and if seriously injured to prosecute them. Your problems are that being drunk makes your less reliable and may make you less sympathetic.
If you are going to tell your Mom something, you should tell her the truth. But you don't have to tell her anything. You're going to have to figure out your adult relationship with her, but that is a whole different problem.
2007-12-26 21:46:23 · answer #2 · answered by Frst Grade Rocks! Ω 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you got drunk.
She will probably get really mad at you, but it's the only right thing to do.
Honesty is always the best policy, lying about your mistakes will just make them so much worse!
You shouldn't go to parties where kids are likely to start handing out alcohol.
Anyone who pressures you to break the law by drinking underage is not your friend!
The reason you get drunk is because, (guess what!), alcohol is POISONOUS! It kills you brain cells, destroys your liver, and weakens your heart..... It's no wonder kids who drink underage typically score 10-25 points lower on standardized tests.....
Good luck, just say NO.
~WOMBAT
2007-12-26 21:34:55 · answer #3 · answered by WOMBAT, Manliness Expert 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as it has been how would anybody know you were drunk unless you tell them ? Of course if the girls cop to even having seen you they might say you were but what will make them so believable ?
But I'm not saying you should lie. Definitely if asked tell the truth. But you need to report what happened, the sooner the better.
2007-12-26 21:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jesus rocks 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I drink alcohol and have been drunk before AND got jumped before while being intoxicated. Let me just say, while I don't condone underage drinking, getting jumped by 2 of your friends was really uncalled for. You should definitely explain to your mom what happened because when she sees you, she's going to figure out that you were in a fight. I don't think you should tell her that you were drinking because I, honestly, don't believe that the drinking should hold precedent over getting beat up by these girls. You should press assault charges against them!
2007-12-26 21:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by sheyenenc3 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Okay, first thing: Teen Drinking Is VERY bad...(i got a fake id tho...lol, j/p)
ne wayz, public service announcement over, it's better for you to tell the truth because whatever you did to piss those girls off, they might come back for round 2 and you might be alittle more than banged up. So, if you don't think you can go to your mom then you should probably go to another adult you trust.
2007-12-26 21:27:28 · answer #6 · answered by laangel464 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not like you'll get any jail time for drinking underage. Most likely a slap on the hand and a fine. Now getting beat up, that's serious, and the proper authorities should be notified.
2007-12-26 21:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by zlatham 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom and call the cops
2007-12-26 21:54:21 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your Mom everything because it will come back and bite you in the butt someday. We all make mistakes and as parents we were your age once too. No one should ever put there hands on you ever and that the bottom line.
2007-12-26 21:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by kita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat, Drink be happy and if you will heal go kick there asses. DO NOT tell mom unless you r really young. Cops will arrest you and I doubt you have a videotape to make them listen to u. They will take your report and file it in the G basket The facts mam, just the facts. I TELL IT LIKE IT IS.
2007-12-26 21:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by okrife 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋