Why am i so attached to chicks?

Question

I'm 22, good job, healthy, i have an overall good life imo.
First i just wanna say im straight
I kinda have a problem getting very attached to the ladies, i dont do this for attention or anything because i never tell anyone but when i loose a girl i care about (which is usually every girl i date because i kinda get attached fast) i feel like sh*t and i drink alot and just feel worthless.., for instance this girl i dated for about 2 months broke up with me because she still cared for her ex, and ive literitly been drunk for almost the entire week, i think one day i was sober and that was christmas morning. My drinking continued later that night after my family left. But when im with a girl im completely opposit, im fun to be around, i dont drink at all, im happy....whats wrong with me? I dont get it...

Also im sorry for the bad spelling, im intoxicated at the momment.

i dont want help, i just want to know why im like this and whats wrong with me.

Answer 1

ok well i only may only be 16 but i know what ur going threw...my step dad is the same way and so is my best(guy) freind...nothing is wrong with u! your fine...you are just looking for commitment in all the wrong places... you really shouldnt drink to solve this problem either cause my stepdad drinks when he is like this and he gets violent...not saying you do or anything but it is very unhealthy to do that to your self...dont give up on love...just have faith and restart. you will find the right girl someday.also most girls like that a guy gets attached...well at least i do i think it shows that the guy really cares about u. so dont stop that part i would say.

Answer 2

is there something that's missing in your life such as your parents' involvement in your life? Did they lack support or encouragement toward you when you were growing up? Do you find you tend to smother your partner when you are with them which tends to drive them away?

I would say some of these things would cause deep attachment along with a feeling of rejection. I think you need to have your friends around you to let you know it's not a big deal to not have a girlfriend which might make it easier not to get so attached and fall in to drinking to cope. You also need to find more interests in your life to make it easier to divert your attention to more meaningful things in your life to make it more complete and should be something that you are passionate about. This will also help with your self esteem and confidence.

Give me a thumbs up if I am on to something.

Answer 3

As a mental health professional with 20+ years experience, now retired, I can confidently tell you that addiction is a key issue, whether the addiction is to women, alcohol, your social self-image, career image or whatever, and when that prop gets kicked out from under you, you collapse. People who have addiction problems usually don't want help, so I'm not surprised that you say you don't want help, which furthers my assessment of your addictive personality. Do what you want. It's your life, isn't it. God Bless you.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

as john kirwan should have said harden the f##k up and dont be such a cry baby.boohoo so you cant keep a girlfriend because you get so attached give chicks a bit of room to breath and they will love you for it.stop thinking about yourself all the time and consider how these poor girls feel

Answer 6

There is nothing wrong with you. You are wanting to commit to someone. You just need to meet someone who wants to be committed to.

Answer 7

Seek help my friend, you have a problem.

Answer 8

gays get along well with ladies

Answer 9

if ur a man than DUH!!!!