Alright, here's the deal:
I've been going out with this guy I really like for about 2 weeks. He doesn't haev a cell so I can't text him and (since its christmas break) I can't talk to him unless I call his house phone.
Well, I'm afraid of two things:
His parents/brother will pick up.
He'll be one of those silent-for-two-hours type people that are sooo shy on the phone.
But I'm afraid NOT to call. Will he think I don't care?
Help!
What should I do?
Thank yooohoo!
2007-12-26 12:05:17 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 13, and he doesnt have my number.
2007-12-26 12:11:41 · update #1
wel, u shouldnt wory about his parents or brother unless they dont know ur his gf or somthin. to just really quickly get him on the phone, u could just say, "hi, this is (ur name). is (bfs name) available?" and if hes the shy type, dont worry, u only have to call once to kno whether hes easy to talk to or not on the phone. if he is the shy type tho, ull just have to ask question after question, until he starts talking, or ur bord, or u dnt want to talk nemore, or u run outa questions. ask stuff like, "how are u?" "wacha doing?" "wat r u doing for break?" "wat did u get for (wat his religious holiday was, like christmas, kwansa, chanikua, etc)?" "whats going on?" stuff like that, and try to make it so its not a yes or no question, so he wont be going, "yes... no... no... ya... u-huh...no..." thats boring. i hope i helped! if u need more questions, email me!
2007-12-26 12:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him!! What are you afraid of his parents may do a little questioning but thats parents. So what if he is shy you make the conversation flow if he is at a loss for words. And yes he may think you are not that interested ......especially not hearing from you all christmas break?!!! He is probably waiting by the phone right now...CALL THE GUY>>>
2007-12-26 12:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by Happy2bAlive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well being afraid to call you boyfriends house, just shows us that your pretty young and immiture. Not to be mean or anything, but honestly. If he's not aloud to date, then he shouldn't be dating. Same with you. Plus if he doesn't have a cell phone, that's another thing that says your both young.
What would you even do with him, if he doesn't have a cell phone, and you don't want to call his house phone because him mom, dad, or brother might pick up, then what will you do. See each other in school? Don't get yourself worked up about it, especially if your young.
(About me saying that it proves your young and immiture, again im not being mean, it's just kind of shows that you are.)
2007-12-26 12:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by brittany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and tell him to call you then when he does tell him you'll call him back in a few minutes. Then don't call him until he calls you because he gets worried that you didn't call him back then stand on your head for an hour and eat a can of re-fried beans and squeeze out as many farts as you can in a minute. P.S. Make sure you document how many farts you toot, the current record is held by Arnold Scratchnsniff Tootsum.
2007-12-26 12:12:20 · answer #4 · answered by Nicholas G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try an email or IM first. what's the worst that can happen?
tell him that you just wanted to drop him a quick call and let him know right up front that you don't have a lot of time to talk. then if it's awkward, you already have an out. if not, he might forget you said it had to be quick or you can get off and make arrangements to talk at a later time.
break the ice. you'll always wonder what would have happened if you did and you don't
2007-12-26 12:10:06 · answer #5 · answered by pickle_tkl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the phone and before you dial his number dial in *67 and then his number,
cause the person who's getting the phone call wont know that your calling so a random person will pick up and by the way also change your tune of voice to make it sound like a boy if his mother picks up the phone.
2007-12-26 12:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girl call, if you don't want to do the initial asking for him, have one of your friends do it for you, that way if mom or brother answers, they say thank, happy holidays and hang up. If he is the 2 hour 2 word guy, have one of your friends say they need to use the phone and for him to call you when he can.
Nothing ventured is nothing gained.
2007-12-26 12:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by sixxluv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theses times are trouble..... and these times are good .... and threy're always gonna be .. they rise and they fall.....we take them all the way that we should .. together you and me .......forsakeing them all and true love always does ....I'm here by your side...... 800 miles away ....... nothin s ever gonna change the way I feel ,,,,,, the way it is is the way it was........when I said i do ...I ment that i will ....... till the end of all time ....be faithful and true .. devoted to you......thats what I had in mind ...... when I said I will....... only you and I can undue ....what makes us a woman and a man .... Love is a lonely heart .... in every lost and found..... but you and I will be the only ones that will know what forever means .... Be faithful and true ...thats what Im gonna do .....
2007-12-26 12:18:53 · answer #8 · answered by quen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is in the question. Call Him. He has to be on your mind, or you wouldnt be asking the question. If he doesnt have much to say, just tell him you cant talk long, but you just wanted to call to say "Hey"
2007-12-26 12:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by pony_1972 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a quick call to ask him how his Christmas was and just say hi. Get off the phone and the ball is then is his court!
2007-12-26 12:08:04 · answer #10 · answered by sky64 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋