About a month ago she sent me a text. she said she heard I like her and she's not interested in pursuing anything. She said she hates to be led on and won't do it to me. I went and talked to her at her apartment (we're in college). I told her the truth. Listen. I really like you. You're pretty, smart, funny, motivated and have an amazing personality. we had small talk and i asked her if the not interested is permanent or at the moment. she said she's not sure. I said ok well I'm probably gonna ask you out next semester. Here's the deal... school starts in the middle of january. I'm gonna ask her out about a week after we get started, so she's on schedule. I'm gonna go up to her, with confidence and say. "hey. you wanna hang out on a fri-sat. nite when you're not busy? I'd like to go play putt-putt and perhaps starbucks. We'll just go as friends. But it'll be MY treat. (she's also going to china in a few days) And I'd love to hear about your trip to china! What do you say? how does this
2007-12-26 11:59:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sound? I've known her just under a year and really do enjoy spending time with her. i look forward to school starting so I can see her again. I think I'm in love... I've never felt this way about anyone before. I had surgery last week. I realized I'm more nervous talking to a girl than I am about getting something that could kill me! that's weird! please... what can I do? do I sound desperate! I'm tired of being single and really might be in love with her! help me, and be honest!
2007-12-26 12:00:21 · update #1
btw the surgery was an appendectomy. i'm fine. sore, have a nice scar, but fine.
2007-12-26 12:00:49 · update #2
you do sound desperate
She has already said she doesn't like you so back off
Find someone who wants to be with you just as much as you want to be with them i mean you deserve it.
And if she is meant to like you then she will
2007-12-26 12:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Along the way we fell in love 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Desperate,
She said she doesn't want to lead you on. Most girls know if they are attracted to a guy, and believe me if they are, they won't try to chase you off by saying they aren't interested. Move on and find a girl who appreciates you.
2007-12-26 20:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you really do like her...lol ok chill and start from friends you might scare her away you sound a little desperete but i think it was really sweet of you to go up to her and say that to her. She might like you if not she would of say no to you.
2007-12-26 20:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋