i was spending the night at my best friends house we were up stairs waching tv and her bro comes up and sits next to me. and then he starts grabing stufff. and he startes texting me and i answer and we do that for like 2 hr. then my best friend and i go downstairs 2 sleep. she falls asleep and i'm still awake and her bro come in and is like want 2 wach more tv and i'm like ok. then he and i hold hands no big deal but then i go and sit on the floor cuz i wanted to he comes and pushes me and i'm laying on the floor and he gets on top of me and is like want 2 f@#$ and i'm like no and hes like ok we can take it slow and i'm like what ever adn the he spill water all over my shirt and is like let me clean that up and he like gives me hickys. and now i don't know what 2 do i like him but idk if he feels the same way. what do i do? advice plz.we promised not 2 tellanyone plus if his sis my best friend would kill him and then me.
2007-12-26 11:58:46 · 12 answers · asked by little_rae_rae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should text him and see whats up and if he feel the same way take it slow don't give up the booty. Tell your friend you like him and see what she saids
2007-12-26 12:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by ladibuggs917 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why are you even asking the question if you know majority of the people may tell you NOT to spend the night again at your friend's house? You need to tell this guy to keep his hands off of you because clearly his actions made you uncomfortable. Do you want to have sex with him or commit any acts with him that may or may not be appropriate? If yes, then go and spend the night and take the necessary precautions. If no, then don't go back there until you have thought about what you truely want and then have discussed it with this guy. If he can't come to you with a mature and level head, then get rid of him. If he can't treat you like the decent young lady you appear to be then kick him to the curb and DO NOT compromise you integrity because he wants to get laid.
2007-12-26 12:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by Lost & Wandering 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just so you fully understand what happened, you were almost raped by this guy. Is that clear? I hope so, because if it isn't, I am sure he will make sure to finish what he started the other night.
So, you don't want anyone to tell you not to go back there? Ok, I won't and you can be stupid and go back for more. Just be prepared to be raped, I am sure he will not let you get away this time.
How much older is he than you? Are you a minor and he is not? If so, that is behavior that can get him arrested and thrown in jail. Did you know that?
Be smart, don't go back, stay away from this guy and never let someone attack you like that again by not getting in to a situation like that.
2007-12-26 12:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes age is a BIG consideration ---- do you like this guy??? --- does he really like you or is just looking for a quick feel and a grope --- if he is interested then why not go out for a drink of some kind (maybe a soft drink or a coffee if you are allowed) --- and talk --- if he keeps wanting to grope then tell him to get lost as thats all he wants
2007-12-26 12:08:10 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him! He doesn't sound like he likes you, but more like he just wanted to hook up for the night. Someone who disrespects you by pushing you down, getting on top of you, then pouring water on you does not sound like somebody worth your time.
2007-12-26 12:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by mula 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congrats...you sound like an particularly in charge guy. Heres some suggestions for you... =start up by applying hugging...or perhaps placed your arm round her. touch her cheek gently, then provide her somewhat kiss on the lips....then yet another....then youre making out! =Do what feels organic...theres no incorrect thank you to do it. in simple terms make her sense as comfortable as possible. =Dont attempt to shove your tongue down her throat...in simple terms form of open your mouth at the same time as youre kissing her, & gently slide it into her mouth. rubdown her tongue with yours, & attempt to no longer drool throughout her lol. =My gf loves it when I play together with her hair at the same time as we kiss, or gently caressing her neck works properly too. =end it by applying looking in her eyes & announcing some thing candy or humorous. reliable success guy....dont problem approximately it...prepare makes ideal.
2016-10-09 05:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter how old you are. Let his sis "kill" him, she should (not literally of course.)
Silence is the worst weapon in abuse. Ask yourself, if he did this to you, in his own house, what's he doing to other girls?
Do not be silent, if you are, you have no one to blame but yourself. Don't listen to ANYONE that tells you "bad things will happen."
2007-12-26 12:06:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I read all that and I have no idea what the hell you just said. Way to confusing.
2007-12-26 12:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like you should concentrate on your education...
2007-12-26 12:03:39 · answer #9 · answered by annvictorblue 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you should shut your alarm clock off and wake up,,,you're dreaming
2007-12-26 12:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by yafvoc 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋