I've been dating a guy for seven months. It wasn't officially commited but he told me that I was the only person he was seeing. However, for the past few weeks gradually he's been acting strange, I just chalked it up to stress cause he said that things with us were fine, but I could sense that something was different.
The final straw came on saturday, I called him to ask if I could bring him his Christmas present by the house and he didn't pick up. I left a voicemail about it yet he never responded or acknowleged it in any way. He went back home for the Holiday on monday and won't be back till after new years so i won't see him for a while and I don't dare call him while he's visiting his family. The only contact I had from him all Christmas was a text but it looked like it could be a mass text.
Please give me some guidance, I am crushed and at a loss for what to do, I don't just want to give up. Should I even try to talk to him about it when he gets back?
2007-12-26 11:20:12 · 9 answers · asked by candiecorn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give up and walk. sorry. he's gutless
2007-12-26 11:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, honey, I think you should walk away. I wonder if he feels that your relationship could be getting too serious, and he doesn't want the commitment. Hope this is of some help.
2007-12-26 19:26:39 · answer #2 · answered by SKCave 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean, you can try to talk to him...but the best advice i can give is temporarily ignore it. If he genuinely cares about you at all he will be the one to reach out and contact you and tell you what has been going on, if he doesn't care about you he won't reach out and you are better off without him!
2007-12-26 19:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have someone else in his life. Leave him be until he sees you're the one he should be chasing. You sound like a sweet person, but don't get hung up on this one yet.
2007-12-26 19:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by GSConsulting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him. Not for him but for yourself. If things are heading south for the relationship, you need some closure. Hope everything works out for you!
2007-12-26 19:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by The Midnight Rider 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda seems like he isnt that serious about u as him.but it really is up to u. u know what is best for u....
2007-12-26 19:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by weezyfbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY ???? Seems like he does not give a rats *** about you . Why can't you call his parents house ???
2007-12-26 19:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
something is up get away from this before you get hurt
2007-12-26 19:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by datsleather 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not walk ,run
2007-12-26 19:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by robert s 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋